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1) We dated for 4 months, got to know each other over the course of a year
2) We're teens (under 18)
3) His reason for dumping me was that he just wasn't ready for a relationship, but he said that we could still be friends
4) He seemed VERY INTO ME until one week prior to the break up, when he was a little less physically affectionate and didn't see me quite as often (but that could be because of parental intervention--see 9).
5) Up until MINUTES before the break up he texted me ALL throughout the day (as he always did after we started dating) asking about my opinions, interests, what I was up to, giving me updates about his life, saying good night, etc.
6) I was recovering from surgery... so maybe he just texted all the time because he felt bad for me? We discussed many other things beyond how I was recovering though
7) He bought me flowers about a week before the break up due to my injury
8) He always kept up with doing me little favors/being a gentleman
9) One of his parents (who he is VERY close to/who he allows to control nearly his ENTIRE life) made it clear they did not like him dating. They wouldn't allow us to be completely alone together.
10) He is very passive (conflict avoider) and aims to please his parents first and foremost
11) I was his first gf. As far as I know he hasn't dated in the months since.
12) I said I couldn't be friends for a while because I didn't trust him. He sent the last text saying he was sorry, and neither one of us has initiated contact since.
13) After, he didn't help me with my injury, but acted like a polite stranger up until last month. Now, he acts like I don't exist.
14) I've actively avoided him, making sure he was uninvited from a gathering of mutual friends.
15) When people ask his best friend what happened, he says it just "kind of faded"/"ran its course"

Why do you think he broke up with me? Did he lose attraction? Did his parent make him (is he embarrassed to say so)? Was he just not ready?

1) We dated for 4 months, got to know each other over the course of a year
2) We're teens
3) His reason for dumping me was that he just wasn't ready for a relationship, but he said that we could still be friends
4) He seemed VERY INTO ME until one week prior to the break up, when he was a little less physically affectionate and didn't see me quite as often (but that could be because of parental intervention--see 9). When he was planning our last get-together (aka, when he dumped me), he seemed desperate to see me again (so either, he was DESPERATE TO DUMP ME or his parents were forcing him to ASAP)
5) Up until MINUTES before the break up he texted me ALL throughout the day (as he always did after we started dating) asking about my opinions, interests, what I was up to, giving me updates about his life, saying good night, etc.
6) I was recovering from surgery... so maybe he just texted all the time because he felt bad for me? We discussed many other things beyond how I was recovering though
7) He bought me flowers about a week before the break up due to my injury
8) He always kept up with doing me little favors/being a gentleman
9) One of his parents (who he is VERY close to/who he allows to control nearly his ENTIRE life) made it clear they did not like me.
10) He is very passive and aims to please his parents first and foremost
11) He is not a player (I was his first gf)

Do you think his parents made him dump me? Was he not ready for a relationship? Did he just lose attraction to me? Please be honest. Thank you!

Okay, so I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost 10 months. We've been through many ups-and-downs, including a few break-ups on rare occasions.

Some bad things about him is that he's:
•Aggressive
•Very persistent
•A "Horn-dog".

Keep in mind this is a long-distance relationship.
Now, I know you're probably wondering, "WHY ON EARTH ARE YOU DATING SOMEONE LIKE THAT THROUGH LONG DISTANCE?"
Let me tell you, he isn't really as bad as he is described. There are some good things about him, which is why I'm even dating him.

ANYWAYS, the reason why I'm here is because I need advice. Badly.

Recently my boyfriend has been constantly asking for a nude picture from me, specifically the "pusseh".
I constantly reject him, mainly because I'm insecure.
I promised, and we both agreed, that (In a couple weeks), I'd send him a picture of it, as a birthday gift of some-sort. Even though after the agreement, he still asks to send one anyway to "just get it over with" because he wants to see it badly. And whenever I still reject him, he always brings up the, "but I'm your boyfriend." crap. He even threatened me that if I don't send it to him on the day I promised I would, that he'd end up dumping me.

It's really annoying honestly and I hate how persistent he is just to get what he wants. And I have a feeling that he is probably going to dump me before I send the picture I planned on sending on the planned day because of how impatient he is. I love him with all my heart and I really care about him.

What I'm trying to ask here is, what should I do?
Do I just dump him before he tries to dump me, even though I definitely know it's going to hurt me more than ever to let go of him, or do I just continue to reject him and hope for the best that he doesn't dump me, send him the nude on the planned day, and continue to hope the relationship can continue?

Feedback is VERY MUCH appreciated.
Thank you!

I'm starting to think this guy really is the one... despite all of our issues. Very long story made short, we dated in hs and kissed/held hands and I dumped him after 2 weeks. Apparently really broke his heart. In college we fell for each other again. Or well, he liked me all along. Then when it came to kissing him I got nervous and didn't go for it. Weeks later he just said he was using me to get back at me for not liking him when he liked me... but the thing is, we never dated or did anything. We didn't do anything different from what we'd always done.

I think I'm calling us even. His little story is completely nonsensical and I'm not going to attempt to explain more. It was years ago. Me dumping him was almost a decade ago. I've dated other people... even ones I thought were great. They still haven't compared to him.

Do you think we can repair this? He's written me about how he wants to keep me in his life for a lifetime, that he loves me. Maybe not romantically, idk, didn't specify. We keep in contact and talk to each other when we're really truly upset. We share our deepest secrets still. The last time I saw him he kept starting at my mouth when we talked. He asked for advice on girls and really took my advice seriously. He also questioned me about every guy in my life.

We're still rebuilding our friendship... but we've gone in and out of liking each other all our lives. Can we call it even and maybe go for it at this point?

I have been seeing this guy for almost a year (a year in July) and we are kind of a mix of friends who are dating. I am seriously crazy about him. I think he's the best thing ever, but when I ask him how he feels about me or if he likes me his response is "I don't know yet." He doesn't want to stop dating me and he's scared of me dumping him cause he wants to really try. But how the heck can you date me for that long and not have some sort of feelings or even not know if you like me? Any advice?

by the way we are both very religious so the most we have been physical is long hugs. (ages: me:29 him:28)