Search Results: afraid to make commitments

Hesitation and Fear of Intimacy. Not being assertive. Let’s talk about it.

On my quest to improve my social skills I have come to what I understand to be a ‘final road block’ of sorts. The one last hurdle to clear before I feel like I could change the direction of my life. A glass ceiling. That...

Robertcw

Editor Age: 32

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I am not at all afraid of commitment. Is it a turn off girls?

I mean I am not at all afraid of it. If I am interested in someone and they are willing to give it a try. I wanna make my point clear that I am not looking for hookups and am serious about it after a few dates. Girls is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I mean I am not at all afraid of it. If I am interested in someone and they are willing to give it a try. I wanna make my point clear that I am not looking for hookups and am serious

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Why Women Call You Creepy

If someone called you a creep, chances are you deserved it Women do not call guys creeps for being ugly--that is not a thing, so stop complaining about it. Girls call guys creeps if they are being creepy or otherwise...

Idonthaveausername

Yoda Age: 31

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I am completely not understanding this guy?

I met this guy a year ago but only chatted with him from time to time because I was in a relationship. 3 months after my relationship ended I met up with him and we started texting. he was interested in me and getting to...

mamabear78

Xper 4 Age: 47

Fell in love with him. What do I do?

So this guy and I have been messing around for like 5 months now and we have been very close. Shit got complicated in the middle and we stopped talking. He had an ex who was still after him and shit. Anyways, we were...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

I accidentally used my crush, what do I do to fix it?

I met this boy when he was 12 and I was 14. I thought he was cute but clearly in middle school. I grew a secret crush on him. I would see him in the hallways and avoid him, he would smile at me, call for me to come and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should you do when a guy is terrified of commitment?

I’m casually seeing a guy, but at the moment we’re officially just friends with benefits. We dated a while back, but he was afraid of commitment and didn’t want to lose me as a friend if things didn’t work out. It’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he scared of commitment?

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, but 3 of those years we spent at distance, seeing each other 6 days a month.. This year we could have the chance to move in together since I decided to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Can I win her back?

My ex and I met out of the blue by the beach.. she chased me asked me out and showed interest and i was afraid because of my last break up. We dated for 4 months afterwards. We decided we’re meant to be and we started...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I stop being jealous?

My husband and I dated on and off for several years before we were married. He has this female friend that I absolutely hate. I’ve always hated her but she never did anything to me, and the reason for this is that she’s...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Depression, What is it Really and How Does One Cope With it?

Though it is used humorously many times these days, depression is a serious topic and the mental illness itself shouldn't be taken lightly or as a joke. So what is depression? I'll explain it as detailed as possible....

just_a_potato

Guru Age: 23

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What’s the best way to tell a guy to make a decision?

I’ve been spending time with this guy for almost 3 months now and I absolutely love spending time with him. We have both stated in the past that we are attracted to each other and love each other’s company but lately I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I stop falling in love?

I've been chatting it up with this guy now for a lqittle while now. I'm really starting to like him a lot more than I should. He just makes me laugh a lot. I smile more when I'm around him. I'm just so much...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why are my ex-boyfriends actions extremely confusing?

I've known my ex-boyfriend for 25 years. We only started dating 4 years ago, but broke up last year. He left me because he was afraid of commitment. He texted me every day after he moved back to the Pacific Northwest (I...

allyflower979

Xper 5 Age: 46

What's up with my ex's polyamorous behavior?

I need help. I've known my ex-boyfriend for 25 years. We only started dating 4 years ago, but broke up last year. He left me because he was afraid of commitment. He texted me every day after he moved back to the Pacific...

allyflower979

Xper 5 Age: 46

Is it love or is he just afraid of commitment now?

I'm talking to a guy that says he loves me (was not forced n he said it first) BUT he says he doesn't want to have a relationship because if we ever break up, we may stop talking and he doesn't want to lose me in any type...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I worry my boyfriend will cheat?

My boyfriend is about to be getting his first apartment. It is 30 mins away from where I dorm at college, and 30 mins from my hometown. However, it is about an hour from his hometown. Anyways. He is moving to be closer to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m not sure what to do with this guy?

Ok, I’ve been seeing this guy for almost two months and he’s already getting on my nerves. He’s almost finished with his divorce and claims that he doesn’t love his wife, but “will always care for her wellbeing” (let it...

corsettise

Xper 2 Age: 33