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I have two questions regarding male behavior...

Firstly, I became good friends with a guy in highschool. I'm the kind of person that keeps to myself, I don't put myself out there a lot. So, the only reason we became friends is because he was so persistent with talking to me. The nature of our relationship is very playful; we primarily make fun of things and tease eachother. But despite that, we considered ourselves best friends.

He said very touching things to me, like "you're like the sister I never had; I want you to be the godmother to my kids." So admist our bullshitting, we'd get personal with that stuff. And by the way he's been engaged since before I met him, but she lives in a different country. When we got to college, we would always joke about how guys flirt with me/ how people always think we're a couple/ and how we always flirt with eachother.

When he said that we flirt, I was totally caught off guard because I guess I'm an aloof person, I don't really notice guys flirting with me and I never considered flirting with my friend, simply because I've never been attracted to him romantically AT ALL LIKE NOTHING.

Recently, I started saying that I wanted to spend more time with him/ hang out/ do things together, because we don't. I wanted to have personal conversations with him instead of mostly bullshit. And his response... He literally didn't respond, just shrugged at me. And after that, he started getting quieter and quieter toward me, which hurt. Because I am a person whose very guarded/ don't make friends easily, and I'd gotten really comfortable with him.

Shortly after that, his fianceé came to visit and I got to meet her, she was really friendly and someone I could be friends with. After she left, he completely stopped talking to me. I figured he was going through a phase, I gave him time, like 2 months and he never talked to me. So i tried talking to him, no response. Tried again, no response.

Why would he act like this?