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my finance is in the military. My friends say it's a bad idea because every time he is with the army (once a month for three days/two nights) they tell me he is probably around a lot of girls. They say that if he gets deployed soon, he will get tired of having no contact (sexually) with a girl and he will end up cheating on me. They also tell me that since he has been gone all month out of state, (3 weeks of summer training) that they are around girls and he probably "talks" to them. That it isn't that hard to cheat. I trust my Fiancé with my life. I know he will never cheat on me. We have been together for a year and a half. We have never had problems with him and other girls. But my friends say he's just good at hiding it? Are they right? I really hope not. Like, I know he's not doing anything. I trust him with my whole life. But they keep putting thing in my head, I don't know what to think anymore. Please help...

I don't know what to pick. It's either not see my boyfriend for 8 years or more so I can finish college and get my masters or I move with him and find a way to make that work... he's in the army and being relocated soon. He'll be in the US because he's changing his MOS. He has to go through training again to do what he wants now. I'm 20 and he's the love of my life. We keep talking about our future together when we marry. I know 8 years apart is bound to break and I can't lose him. There is no one like him in this world and he's my rock, my love. He's the best person I've ever met. No one has the ability to be as caring and gentle as he can be. No one could ever replace him. He's changed my life since we met and it tears me apart at the thought of being without him forever.