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So Im living in mixed dormitory at university with about 20 people on the whole floor. Im the eldest on the whole floor, and Im only really good friends with one of the girls, and two other guys.
The issue here is that my boyfriend says he wants to get to know all my flatmates, and wants to join me when I go out clubbing or to the pub with all of them. But Im still in a phase of getting to know a whole lot of them myself so Im not super comfortable about that except him joining me if Im just going out with my close girl friend from my flat which we've done before.

The reason he wants to join me going out with them though is because he says he just want to make sure they're safe people and that I should maybe get a second "outside" opinion of these people. Is that being unreasonable because I've never had any kind of boyfriend go THAT far. And he seems to think its normal and reasonable when in fact its making me feel incapable, delicate and naive somehow when Im actually a grown woman by now and Im quite well aware of what people seem trust worthy and not.

Is he actually being unreasonable or am I being too hard on him saying I want boundaries and that I can make those judgements for myself?

So a guy and I have been dating for 3 months now. He hasn’t asked me to be his girlfriend but acts like we are a couple. I’ve been introduced to all his friends and a couple family members. We’ve been intimate, not too often. He talks to me about our future together and asks a lot of questions. His imagination is very detailed and just can see things playing a certain way, like having 3-4 kids... etc.

We’ve both been single 4 years. He has said he wants to be cautious and is patient with timing. I’m scared that he is just getting the best of me and then will leave me behind. I actually feel good with him, he always wants to see me. I haven’t introduced him to anyone really since I am overprotective of who my family and friends meet. Only 1-2 friends have briefly met him.

Any thoughts? Please help... Is he serious and just cautious? Or just taking advantage?

My boyfriend got up at me yesterday because one of my friends (who use to have feelings for me) was giving hugs. This is something me and this guy have always done. My boyfriend however said that it makes him uncomfortable when me and my friend hug and I had to talk to my friend today and tell him to stop hugging me to which he responded, "i don't care" and then hugged me again. Is my boyfriend just being overprotective? Is it okay to hug another person while in a relationship in your opinion?