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We met off SM and he dm'd me and we became friends quick. After twoweeks of talking, he started liking me but I didn't feel the same way, but he said that he won't leave me because of that because he still wants me to be in his life even as a friend, Saying all this lovey dovey shit that I'm the perfect girl every guy wants and that I'm the only girl he's fell so strongely for. Throughout those months, he was an amazing friend who was there for me 24 7 and just made me feel extremely cared for. He knew I went through a lot of abandonment and heartbreak by people and so did he and he promised me he will never hurt me and will always be a good friend. The 8month, I started liking him back but then because of things, we couldn't be together. Decided to get over each other but he promised toalways be a great friend. I trusted him and was there for him 24 7. Plus, we met many times in person as well. We became best friends basically. Suddenly, everything changed. He got a long distant girlfriend, for who I gave him relationship advice and was always there toeverything was okay with him and he wasn't upset. They broke up and got back together 3times, during one of those he dated this other girl for only a week. He was just very despret. He would get with any as long as she wanted him. He began ignoring my messages, overall being an absolute dick. He didn't care about the two tragedies I went through that I toldhim about, he just left me on read when I poured my heart out about how upset I was about them and how much I needed a friend to talk to. He left me on read and then twodays later had the guts to call me and ask for advice about his relationship as if he didn't hurt my feelings two days ago. I vented to him on the phone and he just said I gotta go. We stopped talking, all his promises were lies. This friendship was totally one sided where I was giving my support, chasing after and caring but he didn't care.

We met off SM and he dmed me and we became friends quick. After twoweeks of talking, he started liking me but I didn't feel the same way, but he said that he won't leave me because of that because he still wants me to be in his life even as a friend, Saying all this lovey dovey shit that I'm the perfect girl every guy wants and that I'm the only girl he's fell so strongely for. Throughout those months, he was an amazing friend who was there for me 24 7 and just made me feel extremely cared for. He knew I went through a lot of abandonment and heartbreak by people and so did he and he promised me he will never hurt me and will always be a good friend. The 8month, I started liking him back but then because of things, we couldn't be together. Decided to get over each other but he promised toalways be a great friend. I trusted him and was there for him 24 7. Plus, we met many times in person as well. We became best friends basically. Suddenly, everything changed. He got a long distant girlfriend, for who I gave him relationship advice and was always there toeverything was okay with him and he wasn't upset. They broke up and got back together 3times, during one of those he dated this other girl for only a week. He was just very despret. He would get with any as long as she wanted him. He began ignoring my messages, overall being an absolute dick. He didn't care about the two tragedies I went through that I toldhim about, he just left me on read when I poured my heart out about how upset I was about them and how much I needed a friend to talk to. He left me on read and then twodays later had the guts to call me and ask for advice about his relationship as if he didn't hurt my feelings two days ago. I vented to him on the phone and he just said I gotta go. We stopped talking, all his promises were lies. This friendship was totally one sided where I was giving my support, chasing after and caring but he didn't care.

I have been really close friends with this guy for a long time ( 10 years). If we have been busy, we both tend to draw back to each other after not talking for a while automatically. Since couple of years though, our conversation seems to become upsetting and we argue and stop talking to each other. Recently, we have resumed talking again. The convo is more long distant since he moved abroad for work. He first mentionned that he is just trying to change field and got the opportunity in another country. Mentionned he will be back in few months. I was saddened a bit and stated it to him. He assured me that it was just for 6months. He actually persuaded me to keep talking to him because he misses me. Later, he actually started to withdaw from messenging. So I didn't wrote him back. He then got upset that I stopped writting and I explained that there was no point if he wouldn't answer. Now that the days are coming closer to his arrival date, he said that he might not come back. He plans to find a girlfriend get married and stabilize which he wasn't able to do Here. I told him I had a feeling he would say this. He got upset when I later said he is stringing me along even though he has other plans. He then accused me of wanting to stop talking to him now. I told him to stop whinning and if he wants to talk he can still write to me. Couple of days later he sends me a message and a video. I was busy so I check it out the next day wrote him back we laughed. I then wrote him some more that day but no reply from him. I assumed he must have fallen asleep. I noticed he never replied after 2 days and wonder what was up. wrote to him jokingly " So you disappeared?" and made a crying face emoji (all jokingly). No answer. By the next day, I noticed he blocked me.

I wasn't that surprised with his passive-aggressive behaviour but it still got to me. Personnally, I'm done with him for life.
Did any of you went through something similar... how did you handle the aftermath of it?