Guy's Behavior

The Question Almost Every Girl Wants to Know, but Doesn't Dare to Ask! [PART 1]

TheMoroccangirl

How often does it happen to us that we find someone instantly desirable? Someone we don´t know personally, a random stranger, but let´s say you get to see this handsome stranger pretty often. He could be your new classmate, your co-worker or maybe he is just someone from your neighbourhood?

You start to think often about him, and one day you´ll get to the point where you ask yourself how he feels about you, and if he even notices you. Of course you want answers, but you wouldn´t dare to ask. Afraid to get rejected, made fun of, since you don´t know how he is. You´re afraid to start to talk to him, because you feel shy, and you fear you´ll give him a bad impression.

Fortunately, there are ways to find out whether the feeling is mutual or not; his body language. After all body language says more than words ever could.

1. Eyes.

There´s a lot to say about his eyes. Whether it´s the way they move, the way they look, or how often they blink. All of these are signs;

-If you´re lucky enough you both might have looked into each other´s eyes. Even when it was just for a small second. I mean by this closely, not from a distant. If you were sharp enough you might have known whether his pupils dilated or not. Your pupils expand by 45% when you look at someone you desire. It´s easier to notice them on lighter eyecolors than on darker eyecolors though.

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-If he takes quick glances at you, then congrats he has noticed you for sure. However that does not mean that he is interested in you romantically. You might remind him of someone, or he might have heard something about you. It could be anything, but there´s also a big chance that you´re desirable in his eyes. Especially if this is going on for a time. No guy would keep taking glances at a girl that does not interest them.

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-If he makes eye contact with you. I don't mean once, twice, or thrice, but almost every time. The eye contact lasts longer than a second, which without a certain connection is just plain creepy, but if you're crushing it doesn't matter. It´s all about looking. If he looks away, and looks back at you again, then there is definitely something going on in his mind. He looks away because you make him nervous, but if he is confident in his nature he will usually look back again at you. The guys who are less confident might pretend to be busy after the eye contact. Their nervosity is easier to notice.

The Question Almost Every Girl Wants to Know, but Doesn't Dare to Ask! [PART 1]

-If you're really sharp, you might have noticed how he raised up his eyebrows for a second once you both locked eyes. The surprised look is definitely a sign. We both males and females tend to do that. It happens very quick, and the meaning behind it, is that it makes us appear more open/inviting.

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-He checks your body out. You certainly might have caught him doing that, whether it´s your front or back. Now, don´t freak out. That´s completely normal. Males are programmed that way, biologically seen they´re checking out your ´fertility´. It´s kinda like they´re scanning your body on focusing on the places they desire. The confident guys might want you to notice that. It could be their way of saying ´Hey look at me I´m interested´. However if you catch a less confident guy, he might be embarrassed about it, and might even end up avoiding you for a time.

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-If he is a confident guy he will not break off eye contact nor blink if you guys finally get to the point to have a small conversation. In fact the eye contact would definitely last more than 8 seconds. If he is less confident he might blink a lot, because of nervosity *as I mentioned before the confident guy is better at hiding this*. His eyes might eventually wander to your lips. Once he does this, he is thinking of kissing you.

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2. Nose.

Yes, yes even the nose reveals a few signs.

-If he touches/rubs his nose. I know this is a weird one, but this happens when a guys is nervous around you.

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- If he flares his nostrils. It makes his face appear more masculine/stronger/wider, and guys tend to do this when they notice their crush is looking at them.

The Question Almost Every Girl Wants to Know, but Doesn't Dare to Ask! [PART 1]

3. Lips.

We can't miss this one, can we?

- Have you ever caught him licking his lips while he was looking at you? It has two meanings;

A. He desires you.

B. He is nervous.

The Question Almost Every Girl Wants to Know, but Doesn't Dare to Ask! [PART 1]

-Have you ever had that you had a small conversation with your crush, and you started to smile out of nowhere? Now if he became confused for a second but immediately answered your smile with a smile and he can´t stop smiling, I could guarantee you, he is into you.

The Question Almost Every Girl Wants to Know, but Doesn't Dare to Ask! [PART 1]

-If he bites his underlip around you, it might be a habit, or he is nervous. (Though usually girls tend to do this instead of guys.)

The Question Almost Every Girl Wants to Know, but Doesn't Dare to Ask! [PART 1]

-He could be showing interest through a half fake smile. You see, it takes a lot of courage to smile to your crush when locking eyes, because no one knows if it´s mutual. So guys tend to give you a fake smile instead. With their lips pressed against each other. It would come off less weird and maybe even normal.

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-His lips are slightly apart. This happens when he gives you the suprised look, and it usually stays like that for a few more seconds till he gets his way of breathing under control, because as you may have noticed, it becomes harder to breathe around your crush.

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4. Hair.

Hair huh? Yes hair. Though there isn´t much to say about it, but there is a major sign every guy does without any doubt.

-He touches his hair. Whether it´s trying to bring it back to style quickly once you enter the room or whether it´s nervosity or both. It´s a great sign, unless he is that kind of guy who is vain. In most cases, it´s because his crush is around. Guys couldn´t care less about their appearance in general, but when they like a girl they try to look at their best, and yes they get insecure as well. Just like you want to appear desirable in his eyes, he wants to appear like that in your eyes too.

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This is my first myTake, and I thought why not sharing my knowledge about the male mind so that others could benefit from it. I've discussed only a few facial signs today, and I'll hopefully share more signs soon once I get the time [also if there is interest for it], and maybe I'll get deeper in the subject about the male mind [outside the signs, also the way they view the world, why there are certain miscommunications between the male and female, how we could help them etc.]. I know I've added a lot of gifs, I do that on purpose. They support what I' m talking about, because my way of talking is vague sometimes, and it's always nice to have a certain thing clearer.

Hopefully this will also help the girls who constantly ask whether a guy is into them or not.

[Forgive me for my grammar/spelling errors, I did not take a second check and English is my fourth language.]

The Question Almost Every Girl Wants to Know, but Doesn't Dare to Ask! [PART 1]
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