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I don't think he cares at all. I felt unloved, and unsupported and after all these pleas for attention he just did not show any care so I walked out. After I left I told him I am sad and regret what has happened and his response was "i give up, I just can't do anything right so it's good you have left, I was expecting it"

He also has deep guilty father syndrome and has openly said that his previous children will be a bigger priority compared to the new addition and his aim will be to ensure their feelings are never hurt. I understand he doesn't want other children to feel left out but they need to learn that the new addition is an equal to them. He has separate bedrooms for all children whom come by twice a month but there is no attempt to make a baby room. The new baby will only get a couple of drawers in one of our bedrooms. This just isn't fair. It is my first child, I have expectations too! He has shown no enthusiasm for the new baby even though it was HE who wanted a baby all along. His children have often been rude to me and said things like "this is not your house" etc and he has never bothered to discipline them or ensure they treat me with respect. Infact, he blamed me for the way they talk to me when I first moved in because according to him I was being too nice to the children.

Moreso, our anniversary came and I spent hundreds on an experience for both us but he didn't bother to make me feel special even once. Last Valentines day he didn't bother either. I just feel so unloved and especially during a very delicate time during pregnancy when I genuinely need affection and support, he has been completely negligent.

This is not the first time we have had a breakup for the same reasons and things just do not change and I am fed up.

Shall I just move on and not bother with him?