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Recently, my ex-girlfriend and her friend Jay have told me that a girl I've been with for a little while has been sleeping around with another guy. The guy is one of Jay's housemates. Jay didn't like me when I was with my ex because he was her ex. My ex is also a little overly dramatic and weird.

However, the guy they said my girl is sleeping with (let's call him Joe), I've seen her walk out with a couple weeks ago at a party. A kid at the party came to tell me she walked out with her friends and Joe's friends (apparently they've been friends before she knew me). I was upset, so when I saw her next morning I was very suspicious of her and asked her. She told me she went with them to her friend Jen's house. (There are pictures of them at her house).

Her and Joe were pretty touchy that night on the dance floor but nothing serious came of it. There was no kissing or anything. I asked her again after my ex and Jay told me what was happening, and I was very suspicious of her, because they told me she was sleeping with him for a month. She could only tell me "I didn't do anything". Later on she told me she only hooked up with him once and this was way before we were together. It took some to get that out of her.

I put Jay on speaker phone for my girl to hear him say she's cheating. I told her to call Joe and see if he's heard of it. Joe called her and she couldn't pick up because "I don't know what to say". So I said, lets go out, have a cigarette, then you put him on speaker. I told her to wait for me to get my cigs. When I went out, she wasn't there. I messaged her twice, after she came back talking to Joe on the phone. She told me Joe knew nothing of it and is on bad terms with his housemate.

Then later that night, Jay (Joe's housemate and my ex's ex) came to me and told me exactly what has been going on. That Joe boasts he's "been inside her for a month", that she sends him nude pics, and that they are still screwing each other. He got a random girl to come tell me what she heard Joe say at a party about her. I confronted my girl the next morning and she seemed angry/sad but still composed. Not freaking out or anything. Just repeating over and over " I didn't do it, I promise".

Later on last night I brought it up again and told her that too many people are saying its going on. I told her I'm breaking up with her and to stay away from me until she figures out if she wants to be serious and honest with me or wants to live in between guys. She told me she was sorry she wasn't straight with me about messing around with Joe before being with me, but she hasn't seen him one on one since she's been with me. She kept repeating that she didn't do anything. I told her I can't, there are too many holes in her story and she's being too shady. I said come back to me when you are ready to play no games, no rebound, and no men on the side, until then, f--- off. You think she's cheating?