Search Results: casual relationships

Can guys tell if a girl they're casually sleeping with is getting feelings for them? If so, how can they tell?

I always remember hearing that guys suck at recognising when a girl likes them, and that they don't usually notice unless you're direct with them about it. That was in high school though, not sure how it is in adulthood....

nocturnalbaby

Xper 5 Age: 28

50/50 on a date results in 50/50 in relationships in the future?

So, this question gets brought up a lot who pays for dinner. My uprooting is who ever imitates pays for the event. I don’t believe in dutch or 50/50. Courting should be done if you plan on taking things to the next level...

kc_4308

Xper 5 Age: 37

Break Up & Divorce

How do I get him to not ghost me?

My friend since 2 years old and I recently dated just to try it out. I didn’t want to, but I was pressured into it and before I knew it he was obsessed with me. He and I broke up of course because he had a serious mental...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What can I reply to this ?

I am speaking to this guy and I have asked him if he’s looking for a relationship or.. he said to me it ‘ depends on the situation not looking for one but if it happens then it happens’ what can I reply to this? As I’m...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Sudden feelings for someone?

Hi! this is kind of a train wreck of a post aka my whole existence so stick around. I am F25 who recently just got a side job a month ago on the weekends. My "boss" is M29 I put that in parenthesis because I am...

giftedsub

Xper 3 Age: 28

Sexual thoughts/desires for ex who is my best friend, how to deal with this?

So I dated this girl for about 1.5 years but we ended splitting up as, for our own reasons, we were not ready for a relationship and we wanted different things in the future. After a little bit of time to both...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would I guy not want to push sex and actually take things slow?

First relationship categorized taking things slow by having sex after dating for 1 1/2 months. Sex are high and communication was low. Sex was a big part of our conversation 65 percent and 35% casual conversation. In a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My friends with benefits Doesn't want a committed relationship, Or maybe just not with me lol. But still wants to mess around?

So, I have had, a sexual relationship with my friends with benefits for about (7) years now on and off. And I get it. Like why, would my friends with benefits Commit himself to me, when he has been getting free cookies,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, I love you has been said, is it still casual?

I've been seeing this guy for 4 months. We went into things strictly casually, neither of us knowing if we were ready for something more. He recently told me that he loves me. He's also making plans for my birthday which...

Alwaysconfused36

Xper 2 Age: 41

Is it wrong for women to want a relationship in this day and age?

Is it bad to even seek a relationship nowadays because society is more open to just casual sex then commitment. Why bother if you know what’s going to happen?

Justneedtokno

Guru Age: 31

Are these red flags?

I feel like I already know the answer but I’m also a classic over thinker so I’d appreciate outside opinions! Anyway, I’ve known this guy not for long now, but we clicked almost instantly and it feels like I’ve known...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does having something casual with someone mean to you?

So he told me yesterday that he’s seeing someone but that’s he’s not in a relationship or have a girlfriend but says they’ve been seeing each other for a while. But anyway he stressed the no girlfriend thing to me 3...

sd1223

Yoda Age: 29

Would you contact your first love with potential for a casual night?

It’s been about 8 years since we broke up but we’ve met up once in between those years. He expressed to me that he would always love me but I wasn’t single at that point. I just became single after a 5 year long...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did she flake out like this?

Met a girl, she seemed really down to earth and nice to talk with. We exchanged how we feel about dating (both had bad luck in dating), how we are both looking for a relationship. She kept talking about me like she was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is he still around if we're not having sex anymore?

I moved to a new country and went on Tinder. I was in a mood for something casual. And there I met this man. We were actually very compatible and we connected as friends right away. And we were both for casual, so it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you guys think I'm encouraging objectification on women? I just got accused of doing it by my friend?

Long story short: I had a fight with my boyfriend and it was more of my mistake. He was pretty upset, we had a big fight than usual. So to make him less mad, I was dressing up in sexy way when he was home and other silly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you ask someone if they are looking for a relationship or casual before agreeing to a first date?

Anonymous

(30-35)