Search Results: don't want to lead her on

I met this nice girl on okcupid the dating site. First impressions seem pretty good, so I'm intending to ask her out 2 weeks later. (Cos I only just known her yesterday, I'll give a bit of buffer time to build some friendship online first)

Her profile indicates she's more conservative and old-fashioned, and that she's "the quiet girl in class". She said she did well in sports and studies in school, so I guess she's a model student of sorts. She's also really small and petite.

I don't know what she'll expect when I ask her out though. Does she expect a date, or hanging out to get to know each other better? Should I ask her what she wants, or take the lead and adjust according to her response?

She seems perfect and I want this to be long-term, I dont want to screw this up haha..

I was kinda talking to this girl for like a month every so often last last year and then we stopped talking. then 2 months ago, she out of no where texted me and we started to talk a lot. i had no idea where she stood and what her plans were with me so we talked and talked and i thought she was maybe into me becusae she always texted me first and wanted to hang out, but then at the same time our convos were always kinda friendly and i thought i was in the friendzone. After i while, out of no were i caught feelings and finally manned up and told her how i felt and was totaly caught off gaurd. she told me that she had no idea i felt this way, and was not freaked out by how i felt, but she was unsure of where her head was at, but would let me know when she decided So we contuinued to talk and i decided that it was probabaly a good idea to maybe ask her what she thought of me again, so i did and she told me that she was still unsure, but was leaning towards soemthing but wanted to wait and see how things played out... a while later she was sending me a lot of mixed signals that Friendzoned. So i asked her and she freaked out saying NO!, and that she was still deciding where her head was at. Some more time passed and one day i accidently called her a friend when i was texting her and again she freaked out saying "did i just get friendzoned?" i told her no, and thought for sure she wanted to be more than friends again. Time passed, with more hints like "your a great guy", "you deserve someone special" and i thought she had forsure made her her decsion, so when i fnially asked for for the third time, she said i think we should just stay as friends, and this literally killed me. i asked her "why did you lead me on for so long?" and she responded with, " I tried not too, and didn't want you to get hurt'' wich i dont beleive at all. my Q is, did i get lead on, and do i have the right to be angry and pissed, or was i being oblivius the whole time and was missing som