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My boyfriend is a liar by far. However the first time we started dating I had complete trust in him, then recently I found out about some girl he cheated on me with. She said they had sex once, but in his defense we weren't dating at the time, but the rest of the time (when we were dating) they were talking through text and everything he told me he told her. They were in a relationship, I don't know who was in a relationship first, but a whole year went by and I knew she was somebody he was cheating on me with because, being a girl I stalked his fb. I know stupid, but hey I began to lose trust. Well after I found out, he began to cry and beg for me, she said he didn't even fight for her. Well, I was in Washington at this time because my sister is in the army so I hated that I found this out when I'm out of state. Anyways I'm back now, I forgave, because I'm stupid. Well now, I have a hard time trusting him, he's my first for everything and he knows that yet he took advantage of this, knowing he's a complete asshole. I don't know why guys are like this. Anyways I found out that he is liking tons of girl pics and commenting on girls pages, saying oh you look so cute, wish you were my wife, nice abs, blah blah blah. All these girls are from the Philippines, not even in the USA. But he does have tons of girl friends close to where he lives and in the city, which is where he works and I live. I guess my question is, should I not assume he's cheating? Or should I just call it quits because I've already given so much? I even stopped talking to him yesterday because he was too busy playing his game instead of talking to me, so all day yesterday and now today he hasn't messaged. I feel like I should just break up with him, but he always cries or begs me not to go and says I'm his "wife." We are both 20, well just turned 20.

Alright for four years we had the "picture perfect relationship" well other than my bad attitude around my house when I got off from work (which lasted ruffly 10-8 months. We started dating when I was 16 and he was 20 his family and my family where very accepting we dated for 3 years before he put a ring on it he'd been excited to help plan the wedding so we did and by we I mean I basically did anything I did try to get help with was like pulling eye teeth with him. Around October he got me pregnant I was 6 weeks when I told him and it wasn't even a time at my choice either he kept on and on the day after his birthday till I finally spilled the beans he was caring and sweet over the whole thing but anytime after that when I tried to get him to see a test he'd hurry from my house or make up excuses. Well finally he had to go out of state due to his little brother having surgery and we'd had an argument the day before he left well while he was gone two days before he came back I lost our baby right at 9 weeks. When he came back I told him asap but he just jumped off to wanting to go on a break. In November I found his old phone and found he'd been cheating for years and with 6 diffrent girls. (And that was before the additude) we talked a month later and I told him what I knew and found out his birth mother also was trying to get him to break up with me and was telling him and his parents I couldn't get pregnant even knowing I have the same disease she has and she's had 4 children. At one point she'd tried threw Facebook to get me to break up with him. Thanks to a couple of his friends where back together but his birth mother keeps butting in our relationship still and his parents hate me and are keeping my dog from me over her lies. I just don't know how to reach him with this I forgave him for what his done and his even aplogized to my family. But his family still hates me for what his lying birth mother did. Can anyone help me with this?

We've been together for 3 years and we both love each other a lot. I know it may seem like I don't from my actions but I do.

When I was at a conference for work, I met a man who was very forward and honest about his intentions with me. He kept making advances and I kept stopping him. Eventually I gave in. I wasn't thinking and I made a big mistake. I felt horrible after it happened and I know it was a one time thing so I decided not to tell my boyfriend. This was two weeks ago.

My boyfriend said he felt like I was being distant lately. So yesterday he planned a really lovely date. After the date we had really passionate sex. We were lying in bed post-sex and he was kissing all over my face saying how much he loved me. It was such a lovely night and it made me feel horrible about what I'd done and I ended up telling him. He was pretty shocked and he left my place after I told him.

I am the first girl he's ever been with (kiss, sex everything) and he's a romantic sort of a guy so honestly I think he will forgive me. When we met he had been rejected by a lot of girls because he's short (seriously, you should have heard the things they said to him) and he had bad self-confidence as a result. I know it's probably not the best reason to stay with someone, but I think he will stay with me, if only because he thinks he couldn't get another girl. I don't think that but I think he does. I'm just wondering how long until we will get back to normal. How long until he fully forgives me?