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Just last year was my first year of university and during the first week i met this guy and we clicked right away we became really good friends first and then near the end of September he kissed me and we ended up being together for the entire first year of university. Before school started he was the kind of guy who hated being in relationships, actually cheated on one girlfriend, and had slept with 7 girls. When we got together he was only with me the entire year and would always look after me and i dealt with a lot of health problems so he was checking up on me a lot. When we had sex it was really passionate and loving, it wasn't like we were just two people hooking up or whatever. We broke up at the end of the year because we would be long distance for the summer (4 and a half months) and he was really worried we would grow apart. When we broke up he cried for the first time in front of me and was very emotional so it seemed like it was very hard for him. Over the summer we talked a lot (not everyday but more than exes should be talking) he told me he missed me a few times and would compliment me. He said about halfway through the summer he told me he still hadn't even hooked up with anyone (which is a big deal for him). We eventually stopped talking for about a month but then he messaged me again (every time we agreed to stop talking he would always try to message me a few weeks later). Around September this year we started talking again and he would tell me things like everything reminds me of you, and would send me things he thought i might like, like songs, or pictures of my favourite animal. He texts me at least once a week, and on Thursday he told me he still has feelings for me and we reminisced about old memories until about 2am. The last time he talked to me was Friday evening. Guys do you think he wants to get back together?

We've been seeing each other on and off for almost 2 years (I was away for half a year in between though), it has always ended and started again, and he's always the one to start it again. This time he tells me he can't give me definite answers, but he can't be a boyfriend right now. we have a really good time together, we're there for each other during bad and good times, we're close, there's no denying it, we know things about each other no one else knows and sometimes we'll just look at each other, and it's like we just know, sometimes full on arguments have ended that way. I know he really cares, he never pushes me, especially if I don't feel like having sex. He was in just one relationship for so so long and he just got out of it and says he doesn't want to waste this time in his life and get old and feel like he missed out. that worries me though, that statement. we haven't told each other we love each other, but I know usually when people do what we do for each other, and say how much we like and appreciate the other, love is there. I think he's very unsure of his life, and he also says that when I stress him out it pushes him further away, yet he always comes back to me. a friend of his told me other women wasn't the problem, he's just in a strange place in his life. I want to keep seeing him, but I'm worried about it not going well again, he wants to give me what I want, but I know it;s hard for him and right now he "can't be a boyfriend." I asked him if he meant he could never see himself in a relationship with me and be in love with me and he said no that wasn't it, but that his views on things were changing all the time and he was confused. I want to be there for him, I want to see him, but I'm worried about how I can get my own needs met from the relationship.