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Are his feelings real?

My boyfriend, well now ex, always said he did have feelings for me but his actions didn't always show it. We broke up due to outside circumstances, not necessarily because of how we felt for each other so we both have it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Feelings after getting back to an ex boyfriend?

Hi everyone, Thanks for reading first of all. :D Well, my boyfriend and I have been together since February and our relationship is very physical (you know what I mean) and fast. We love each other a lot, there is no...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can this be fixed?

Can this be fixed? We've been together for about a year and a half, so last weekend i brought up moving in at some point. Not necessarily now but maybe in the next year... i also asked if he saw a future together and he...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Did I ruin things with him?

We've been together for about a year and a half, so last weekend i brought up moving in at some point. Not necessarily now but maybe in the next year... i also asked if he saw a future together and he said he did. The...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

I feel really guilty and selfish? Did I probably deserve this?

This guy hadn't spoken to me in a while, but called me over last week to tell me about his emotionally abusive father, his parents' possible divorce, and also how he is worried about the security of his job. He started...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did she toy with my emotions?

So I met a girl, we are the same age (27) and we dated for 3/4 months. Everything was going really well, I would see her every weekend and some days during the week. I felt a very strong connection with her to the point...

maxpower51

Xper 2 Age: 37

Why he suddenly become distant when everything was going so well?

We’ve been dating for 1 month and I feel loved by him. He would hold my hands and hug me in public and sends morning texts almost every day. And I feel like he wanted to see me all the time and he said he’s always been...

OMalp

Xper 4 Age: 33

The Many Faces of Long-Distance Relationships

The Many Faces of Distance Relationships There are many reasons why people end up in distance relationships. Maybe they didn't find anybody fitting in their proximity, maybe they started a relationship but got separated...

Deconstruction

Xper 5 Age: 33

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Her signs of commitment?

i met this girl 2 years ago, and everything went well. At that time, she had a boyfriend, and for some reasons, she broke up with him after 2 months of seeing me. Then, I confessed to her about my feelings. She said ,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Pushed aside, what now?

Me and my female friend have known each other for a while now. However, she has started ignoring me. I am now the only one to initiate anything, only one to ask her to do things and rarely get a response. I eventually...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, What would you do if you were in this girl's position?

You love this guy Dan. He loves you too. But he's your ex. You guys say you are friends but you love each other. You guys are basically in a relationship but not officially. Dan wants to be official but for some reason...

sasuki

Xper 4 Age: 30

Girls, What do I do?

I'm in a really bad place right now and could really use some advice.. The past few weeks my fiance of 5 years has been distant and I was hearing rumors that she was going to break up with me and move in with another...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are his words sincere?

Two years ago he would act distant with me, always cancel plans on me, just wouldn't take me seriously even though we had a strong connection so I hooked up with someone else since we weren't exclusive. When he asked me,...

sunshinenyc

Xper 4 Age: 43

Girls, What exactly happened in this situation?

Girls, What exactly happened in this situation? So I met a random girl by chance who was working at the store. We started a normal conversation, but within minutes the conversation become interesting and I had a lot...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, What exactly happened in this situation? So I met a random girl by chance who was working at the store. We started a normal conversation, but within minutes the conversation

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Guy's Behavior

Boyfriend says he's lost his feelings for me. Is it over for good?

Last night he told me in the last month his intensity of feelings for me have changed and he cares less and no longer viewed me as a priority, and that he didn't want to have sex so we didn't. I've been questioning his...

helpha

Yoda Age: 31

Was he playing me the whole time?

OK so I just broke up with my boyfriend last week, and since this is my first relationship, I am still confused if I was dating a player or not! He is a big nerd who loves to read a lot and is a bit awkward. He is...

gaiarose

Xper 5 Age: 37

He cried and said he loved me when he dumped me and said he couldn't keep hurting me? Confused! Help?

My ex boyfriend split up with me 6 weeks ago, no I'm still not over it. We dated for a year and a half, but his behavior had begun to change. He became distant and on edge with me. We were going through a rocky patch, and...

Mika88

Xper 4 Age: 32