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I don’t get approached often. And when I do, it isn’t the guy that I’d call my type. My previous boyfriend was a nice guy but something didn’t click right with us in an intimate setting. We met online though.

Most of the men that have made the first move and were my type were from online. But I don’t count that. I’m referring to a mall or coffee shop/bar setting.

Im told I’m not very approachable. I can come across as aloof and shy. But others have told me that I seem nice too though. People say I probably don’t get approached because guys may think I’m already taken or not interested.

Is the intimidation factor an actual predicament? Or do people just say that?

So, the other night me and the fiance were having a few beers. It had been a rough week so we were chilling, chatting, and somehow got onto the topic of celebs we find sexually attractive. We’re both open, not insecure and have never had a problem with the other finding other people attractive. Myself especially because my fiance is attracted to women who have “natural” or “regular” bodies, meaning he isn’t into instagram models or super fitnessy women. For a visual, I’m 5’, 110 lbs, 32C boobs. We were showing each other pics of celebs we found hot, and all of his were very “obtainable” types of low tier celebs, except for one. He showed me this one pornstar looking woman with tight abs and obviously fake breasts, which usually isn’t his type. According to him, she was just “something different” he enjoyed changing his visuals up with. Now, I had no right to be upset because I showed him pics of men much more in shape than he is and was ogling them pretty much lol. However, perhaps it was the beer or the hard week I had, but I got a little insecure and went to bed right after to avoid saying something. After I slept, I still felt a bit bothered until I realized how meaningless it was for him to find one really radically different woman attractive compared to myself, considering I was in the same boat. So, just tell me your thoughts? Has this happened to you? Am I nuts or do you think I really should have been upset?