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The standard response of most political parties when questioned about their shortcomings is something along the lines of "Well the other party did (or didn't do) this so what about them?". That is the response of a small child when being told off. So much of political discourse these days is juvenile and petulant mud slining and this bitchfest is not worth a salary. This is not how it works in business, you have to be professional and stick to the issues. You can't be in a board room and say "Yes, I didn't deliver on my projections but Dave over there didn't either and he also doesn't wash his hands when he pees!". Your promotion prospects would vanish in that moment.

To be clear, I am talking about all parties on all sides of the debate and across multiple countries. My country is no different. We allow these people to act like children and they only encourage their voters to act like children too.

Thoughts?

My girlfriend is 21 and I'm 26, we've been dating for almost 2 years now and I'm noticing a huge problem when it comes to her maturity. It has nothing to do with partying or social media young girl things, it's more a attitude and stubbornness and also selfishness. I keep thinking that oh she's young and she has that frame of mind too, but I've dated 21 year olds before and they've never been this immature. Question here is should you be mature by 21 or am I asking too much?

So I started talking to this girl. When we started talking everything was going good. We texted everyday and called almost everyday. She even said she had a dream of me and her cuddling lol. That was cute. But a while ago she broke up with her boyfriend and things just went downhill. We haven’t really talked or anything. She sent said this to me a week or two ago. She said she's gong to be honest., She needs a friend rn more then a boyfriend. She isn't fully rejected me but she doesn't think it would be fair to lead me on or anything. She said we could definitely have something in the future and she is unsure right now of her maturity and what I need is something she can give. She needs time to figure herself out. The last few years she's been really focused on her mental and emotional health since thats what she needs before she feels that she's ready to fulfill another partners need. She said she has issues she needs to sort out and doesn't want me getting caught in the crossfire. She said she really likes me, she does but she recognizes she needs to do things first. She apologized for leaving me on read for days saying some days she doesn't feel like talking to anyone. Last thing she said was she needs to learn how to have a healthy relationship since the few she's been in haven't gone so well. I mean she still likes my post and stuff but hasn’t responded to my text back to her since Monday.

So I’ve been talking to this girl well I was until she broke up with her boyfriend. Before she broke up with him, things where going good. We talked on the phone almost everyday and texted everyday. She even said she dreamed about me and her cuddling once. That was cute. Then she broke up with her boyfriend and went cold. She sent me this a few weeks ago. She said she's gong to be honest., She needs a friend rn more then a boyfriend. She isn't fully rejected me but she doesn't think it would be fair to lead me on or anything. She said we could definitely have something in the future and she is unsure right now of her maturity and what I need is something she can give. She needs time to figure herself out. The last few years she's been really focused on her mental and emotional health since thats what she needs before she feels that she's ready to fulfill another partners need. She said she has issues she needs to sort out and doesn't want me getting caught in the crossfire. She said she really likes me, she does but she recognizes she needs to do things first. She apologized for leaving me on read for days saying some days she doesn't feel like talking to anyone. Last thing she said was she needs to learn how to have a healthy relationship since the few she's been in haven't gone so well. We did talk a few days ago but she hasn’t responded back. She does like my post on Instagram and views my stuff on fb but like yeah.