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Ok so I am 21 and I have been told I am bubbly. the last relationship I was in was about a year ago and my bf is 27 his last relationship was about 3-4 years ago he is an introvert and doesn't say a whole lot but he is not shy but I end up suggesting things or making a move which afterwards he has no problem following suit we met at work the first week in December 2014. We both ended up being interested in each other because of similar interests and general attraction. We became bf/gf December 25 about 2 weeks after our first date. We have already had sex and told each other I love you around the time we became bf/gf. He has recently met one of my close friends and I am going to meet his mom on the first weekend in February . She is an hour outside of where we live we are going to end up spending the weekend at his mom's. We made plans to go out there because when I asked how it went when he visited her he brought up that she asked a lot about me and he said that she wanted to meet me. So we (mostly me) started making plans to go see her. My bf hasn't really commented on me visiting her other then "I think it will be fine I think you two will get along". And I said I am ready to meet her as long as you are fine with it he didn't comment but he went ahead and made arrangements. We have previously talked about personal stuff that we don't talk about with anyone. I have PTSD and he knows and he has seen me having panic attacks enough times to notice when I am starting to have one and is very supportive. I have told him I don't know where we will end up but I want to be with him for a while and he said he doesn't waste his time either. I have asked him previously do you think we are going too fast and his response was basically "as long as you are comfortable with it I am happy with the pace" which I am happy with our relationship I just don't want to mess it up by going too fast but I don't want to make it feel unnatural by always wondering if it is too much?

4 days ago my long distance boyfriend told me that he "Doesn't think we can work" and that he "doesn't know if he wants me" he said that he still loves me but after that he just stopped responding.. he knew I didn't want to break up but he did anyway.. he still reads m messages and has not blocked me or anything, but, all before that, he put up with my "issues" and always seemed egar to get "sexy photos" from me.. I had NEVER did anything like that beofre I met him.. I told him how bad it made me feel but he always re-assured me thag he loved me, that he wanted me for way more than my body and that nobody else woul see them. He always called himself a "shy" guy that he "got along better with girls" than other guys and that his' female friends were not a threat to me.. but right now since I feel all these awful things.. and that I feel like he is ignoring me, he said he was having problems right now and that "New Years isn't a good time for him" he never really tells me what actually going on.. I feel like I was used and lied to the entire time! :'(

Was I just a complete idiot go believe him? He was my very first ever boyfriend, I was his' second as far as I knew, he only had 1 girlfriend beofre me and he talked like it want good with her. He told me he'd only had sex with her.. I never lived close enough to him to have done anything with him, we only exchanged photos and "cyberd". But really.. I just feel like a fool! :(