How to conquer the mind of a man?

[Anonymous]

The first thing that makes an impression on men is your exterior, but after 10 minutes, it becomes plan B. This is why you should know a few tricks to make you more seductive.

Being sexy.

Every woman has sex appeal, although some might be more hesitant. You just have to let it out - this makes men go crazy. Eye contact, look him in the eyes and make him guess your thoughts. Maybe a playful smile? It attracts his eyes.The feminine crossing of legs makes a good impression on men also.

Compliments.

There is no man on this planet who doesn't love being flattered - not only women love hearing compliments about their looks. There is nothing out of place when you tell a man he looks good. Be honest. Don't be shy.

Interests.

Listen to him carefully, and remember what he likes. You might realize you have same interests, which makes things great for the both of you. For instance, if he is talking generally, about liking girls with less make up, think about going on your second date with him more natural look - he might be giving you a sign that you look prettier without makeup. The judge of a man is always right. Explore what his interested in. He likes pasta? You have cooking skills? Even better. Do something special, he will be really flattered that you remembered what he likes

Let him be the man.

And accordingly, you be the woman.Men love knowing,how they made you happy, so let him do the small gestures,which will feed his ego. For instance,he took you out to dinner. Let him pay the bill,without telling him " Oh no,no. You don't have to." the fact,that he paid for your salad,doesn't mean you owe him something.

Don't be easy, but keep his interest.

He won't take you seriously if you start making more intimate offers to him. He wouldn't mind the fact that you are liberated either. There are many ways of showing your interest to him without making it all wrong. Just think of how many ways there are to seduce a man.

Do something unforgettable.

Something that no other woman has ever done to him. This means you should really try if you want to leave an imprint to his consciousness. At least you can be sure that you're the only one he's thinking about.

[xHoneyxBeex]

Okay, I don't really agree with most of what you wrote here. I'm not going to act in a way that I am not comfortable with just to get a guy's attention. For example:

1. "Being sexy. Every woman has sex appeal, although some might be more hesitant." This is far from true. I have no sex appeal and if I were to actually "try" to be sexy, it would look so damn awkward. I would much rather just be myself, even if it doesn't come across as "sexy."

2. On the topic of compliments, yes, compliments are great. Everyone likes to know that the person they're dating is attracted to them. However, I feel very "weird" when it comes to giving AND receiving compliments. I'm not a super outgoing person and I tend to be shy around guys I like so it would feel awkward for me to come on strong to a guy, such as aggressively complimenting him.

3. "if he is talking generally, about liking girls with less make up, think about going on your second date with him more natural look" How about no, I'm going to continue wearing as much makeup as I like. I don't really wear a lot of makeup to begin with but just because one guy tells me he dislikes makeup doesn't mean I'm going to start wearing any less than my "normal" amount. If how much makeup I wear is that much of a problem then he shouldn't be dating me anyway.

Basically, I don't feel that I should act a certain way in order to get a man to like me. Either a guy likes me for who I am or he doesn't. End of story.

[molan]

1. It is true that far from all woman are sexy, age and fitness is quite significant to sexsyness. However, being sexy for a young fit woman is something is by default, it's not about what she were or how she acts, she simply is. If your profile picture is you, then you are sexy too as you are.

To quote Quinn Harris from the movies "Six Days Seven Nights":
"You know how a woman gets a man excited? She shows up. That's it. We're guys, we're easy. Of course for that you can't charge six bucks an issue, now can you?"

3. True, but a lot of makup is a turn off for many, myself included I'll never go for girls who uses a lot of makup. Be unwilling to change a bit and you will exclude a lot of opportunities, goes for both genders.
Relationships includes compromises in non essential issues, never forget that.

If makup is essential, then you are right of course.

[xHoneyxBeex]

@molan I don't use a lot of makeup but I'm not going to stop using the little bit I do just because some guys don't like it. That's ridiculous. And again, if my wearing makeup is such an issue then the guy shouldn't be with me in tbe first place. Compromise doesn't mean not wearing makeup just because a guy doesn't like makeup.

[molan]

@xHoneyxBeex
That is what I meant with the 'essential' part, there are essentials and non essentials, depends on what it is you should change or not.

If you use only a little bit of makup, then the man should compromise or loose the opportunity with you, but it's all depends.

Smoking is essential, you either do or don't, I would never compromise and be with a girl who smokes, but I'll accept a bit of make-up no problems. See my point about it being essential or not!!

[godfatherfan]

You started off right on the money then completely derailed...
Your 2 areas of "let him be the man" and "Don't be easy, but keep his interest" are way off the mark. They sound like something a very young woman would say. A relationship should be equal. not all guys can afford to pay every time you go out. so the woman should at least offer to pay once and a while. he may not want you to, but you should offer. Personally, when I start dating a woman, if we go on 3 dates, and she does not offer to pay at least once, I will break it off and look elsewhere.
also, sex is very important to an adult relationship. Women seem to think that guys "lose repect" for them if they have sex "too soon" Most guys will respect a woman that decides things for herself much more then a woman that lets society dictate what she should do with her body. If you have the chemistry, you should feel free to have sex at any time. 1st date or 10th date. but usually it is understood sex is "on the table" from the 3rd date on...
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otherwise I really liked what you wrote and I would say the rest is right on the money.

[nnejak94]

I like these amendments. I like to pay for a meal, but I also like to know that she at least acknowledges that it can be an inconvenience. I'll always gladly pay for dinner (I don't ask a girl out unless I know I can cover both of us), it's just the principle of it. Same as how I don't take money for gas when I drive my friends places, but it's still nice when they offer it.

I'm big on independent thinking. If a girl is confident and does what she wants (without being bitchy about it), that's a huge turn on. I hate those "don't have sex until the ___ date" rules. God damn if you like the guy and want to have sex with him, be direct about it. Not everyone likes the "hey let's have sex" approach, but don't be afraid to send him clear signals like touching him a lot or being close to him. Hell, even start talking about sexual things to increase the tension. Just have to make your intentions and interest clear instead of playing games and beating around the bush.

[TheDevilInside]

Overall, this is a pretty good take. But there are some details I don't agree about:

1. "Every woman has sex appeal"? No. I don't. lol And hey, sometimes guys like the "cute" girls instead of the sexy minxes. I'd look hilarious if I tried to be sexy.
Nice confidence boost for women, though ;)

2. About the wearing less makeup thing? Fine. Do it. But only if YOU want to. You shouldn't change who you are only for a man. You can do it occasionally to please him, but keep doing what you like and enjoy. If you enjoy putting on makeup on your canvas of a face, then don't stop doing that just because you're dating a man who doesn't like girls with makeup. The right man will respect you for not being a pushover and being yourself. This goes for other aspects as well, not just makeup, obviously.

3. "Let him be the man". I actually agree with this. I don't know what other girls are so mad about. I know it's a world of feminism, and I guess I can consider myself a feminist as well (not a crazy one!), but it's a nice thing to sometimes give the guy an ego stroke. Ask him to do manly stuff for you: lift heavy things, reach for high objects, be the hero, YOUR hero. Even if you can do them yourself. Not all the time, but sometimes.

4. "he paid for your salad": Eat whatever the hell you want on a date. And however much you want. A confident, mature man would respect you for being able to be yourself in front of him instead of pretending to not have a large appetite when you do. And don't always let him pay. It's not really considered a manly thing today anymore anyway... So carry your own weight when it comes to money.

[godfatherfan]

Well said. I agree with you completely.

[loveisbeautiful]

From a woman's point of view this is were I differ from most
women. Because, to me all of that sounds like I'm suppose to
be some trained circus seal who jumps through hoops to get
someone to like me, want me and or desire me. I'm not a circus
seal and I would never jump through all those hoops. I'm not
very confident in myself right now and I don't want to do any of
what's listed above. When I am confident, I'm going to want to do
that stuff even less. Because, it just doesn't seem worth it to me.

[nutswithattitude]

I agree with that, this is point I am trying to make. Just be yourself.

[muspelhem_3]

I so agree with this. I find someone who is true to themselves is a hundred times more attractive.

[sawno]

You know, you sound a lot more attractive then the typical girl who follows exactly whats in the article.
Why? Because i absolutely hate games and want her to be herself.
Its not a matter of playing hard to get or doing certain things in order to get me interested.
Its about being yourself and doing things because you genuinely want to that will make a perfect match if the match is ment to be.

[abzence]

It's the year 2015 now and there nothing "manly" about paying for stuff. And there's nothing lady like to be self entitled and not even bother to show the slightest interest to contribute economically. Many women earn more money than men these days.

The days of pampered little princesses are pretty much over. Show that you are a real woman and not some child in an adult body. Be that strong, independent woman you claim you are.

Conquer the mind of a BOY by being his submissive princess.
Conquer the mind of a MAN by being his equal.

[yellowmamba024]

For me, I would say a woman can conquer my mind if...
1. Maintain good habits. Don't smoke so much weed. Don't drink so much. Don't fuck so many guys. (Yeah, it' s a personal preference so what?)
2. Maintain healthy lifestyle.
3. Goes to school and wants a job. I want an fairly intelligent woman. She doesn't need to be the smartest, just have enough brains.
4. Fairly good looks. No I don't need her to be a supermodel
5. Fairly mature. Again, I don't mind her having some immature traits. But at the end, I want her to be mature when she needs to be.
6. Has self-esteem.. Has some self-esteem, but not way too much that make herself cocky.
7. Fairly open minded and have a pleasant personality.

[HotshotGG]

You forgot bro, she's gotta have a little bit of crazy. So when you riding her, she just freaks out and shit. Den there's kinky shit but you know what im talking about dog, im sure you got some fine pussy you spanking.

[yellowmamba024]

Yeah I get you, but not everything is about sex.

[kambo_trick3y]

Conquer my mind?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=73-GmF_ZnJo

[myTake Owner]

Okay, this is funny hahaha

[kambo_trick3y]

Glad to be of service :P

[Anonymous]

You will never be able to conquer a man's mind. These articles are to generalised. Every man is different, different needs, different expectations. The quotes says, let him be the man, that made me laugh, I have no interest in a girl trying to feed my ego.

[myTake Owner]

Read the content bellow "Let him be the man" meaning, men are happy taking care of their women, which really does feed their ego, because they feel good about it. "Conquer" is just a methaphor of how to attract your man, in my opinion/take.

[Opinion Owner]

If you want to attract a man, its really simple, just be yourself, and the right man will come in your life, and he will make an effort to stay in your life. You don't need all these fancy ideas, how to attract to opposite sex. If your not going to be yourself, then your playing fake to the person you are trying to attract. If someone doesn't like you for who you are, then they are really now worth your time.

[myTake Owner]

It's about women making men, who they are attracted to feel special. Not saying they shouldn't be themselves. I think you got it all wrong.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah it does say, let him, make small gestures, to feed his ego. So you are trying to let me, feel like a man, Which I have no interest in a girl trying to make me feel like a man, that would not attract me to you. Just be yourself, because that's the person I want to love. Attraction shouldn;t be hard work, it should be easy.

I want a girl than i know she will be herself, and will let me be myself. None of this fancy ego feeding bullshit, or trying to impress each other. That to me, is playing fake, trying to be something your not. I want to love women, she accepts my flaws, and I accept her flaws.

Typical media and society bullshit trying to feed rubbish on how to attract the opposite sex, when all you are really doing is playing fake. Sorry I am not having a go at you, but these types of artcles make me laugh. Its going to do nothing for you, but give you false hopes, cause every man is different.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok but there many ways to someone feel special. But likeI said, If you were trying to make me feel special wouldn't work then. Because the article is still generalised. Its a load of rubbish. Sadly if you are going to stick to this plan with every man, you will be sadly dissappointed.
If you want your man to feel special, just give him a good time in the bedroom lol. that's only thing man care about. Having good sex. Unless he is someone freak, that box of chocolates, loves the compliments, and get a screaming orgasm, just because he has being callled handsome.

[Prof_Don]

Another point to add is, she needs to ensure him that HE is the only man, that she has his eyes on, and doesn't have any remote interest in others.

Time and time again, us men have seen... women in the modern day area don't show much loyalty to one man. We feel like we are ALWAYS fighting to keep her attention, or else someone else will grab her attention and "take her".

All the above points are absolute moot, without showing that u are a "one-man woman".

[Phoenix98]

This aimed at men in general, which won't work since every man is different with a different mindset, goals, ambition and personality. You might tailor this instead towards a certain type of man instead of men in general because it won't work for all men.

[myTake Owner]

The examples I gave are how to make men feel special, women showing their interest. In my opinion it would attract every man in general.

[Phoenix98]

Possibly, but not all men are subject to the same things.

[Unit1]

Well, it's a good article you wrote there. You might also want to add, that some men think with logic (I am being one of them). If girls want to keep up with men, they should start to think, said, with logic, like a man does, not playing tell-a-tale mindgames, which leads into confusion, riddles and nonsense.

Just be straight ;)

[emmabee11]

The one that made me cringe the msot was "Let him be a man" what are us women? submissive walk overs? lol and i think i can carry a shelf, learn to paint a wall or put together a flat pack fine... i've carried a flat pack chest of draws out of home base before and then a flat pack book shelf out of Argos lol and look at me i'm alive and buff baby lol.

[molan]

Being a man in a relationship is not about paying for dinner or lifting heavy stuff, it's about having a place in the relationship... if you as a women is so independent you don't need a man for anything, then be single.

[emmabee11]

Lol how about love? a relationship? we need a man for that lol and sure... id let him help out it's always easier with an extra pair of hands but in no way will i let a man just take over stuff to the point it stop me from being independant.

[Sigma88]

Conquer a man's mind o. O... Red Alert!

Actually, this Take spells out how to attract a man quite nicely. Most men are not that complicated, when it comes to initial attraction & interest. A fairly good Take... Now, see if you can do a Take on how to keep a man >=} ...

[myTake Owner]

How to keep a man would have the same content :) but it's a good idea, I might write something about that too.

[Sigma88]

If you do, I'll certainly read it.

[Frost_Byte]

Actually if u want a man to be all over you. Go up to him and instead of "making him guess what your thinking" just be straightforward and straight up say "i like you! Your cute" then wink and be sexy. Don't make him do so much work... honestly its tiring af.

[Jakesusername]

You think you can control a man.
www.troll.me/.../cute-good-luck-with-that.jpg

[harakiri]

'Do something unforgettable'

*bangs his dad*

:)

[chocolatedragon]

Total mindfuck :o
nothing was the same with father after that faithful day.

[harakiri]

Lmao exactamente :p @chocolatedragon

[JackKerouac77]

AHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[Would_You_Kindly]

You just made me realize where my distrust of women comes from :/

[AmberDawnxo]

I like it :) hate how some people are getting butt hurt. Again this is just her take and whats worked for her :) so maybe it will work for anouther. Thanks for your advice !

[Drake]

ye dont play games and shit. It is confusing and leads nowhere. but luckily i listen to a lot of rap music, so these gals can't "conquer" my mind that easy. Before i open up i make sure I've cracked your shell.

[AdoringFan]

What has rap music to do with girls being able to "conquer" your mind?

[Drake]

i was being sarcastic

[BertMacklinFBI]

"Let him be the man - Men love knowing how they made you happy." yup that is a damn important one.

[Cinderellafella]

Oh my god I can't believe how limited minded most of you are, it disgust me. You didn't get what she was saying and you all are hella stupid talking shit, which is not connected to this post. Chill out dudes, you all are just some boys, u don't know nothin about being a man. UGH. Hate seeing people act too smart, not getting shit, I'm laughing. Girl, I like your take and all is true.

[Zango91]

Most of this works only in movies. Or maybe for a one night stand or a few dates.

[myTake Owner]

If I don't have experience with this, I wouldn't have written it. If it doesn't work on you, okay.

[Zango91]

The problem with men is they don't complain much. If the girl is hot and the relationship is barely normal, they would just go with the flow. That's the cause for most relationship problems. They reveal them only when shit happens. Good to know, these gets you going. The point is, If he has no interest in you, all of these are just gonna make him see you like a creep. If he likes you, you wouldn't have to do any of these. :)

[myTake Owner]

It's logical, for this examples not to work, when the man is not attracted to the woman.

[Zango91]

Yes. Similarly, If he like you, he will just lead from the front and expect nothing. All these things would be good relationship catalysts.