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You may find this story a fairy tale in course. Maybe even a great, funny story to enjoy. I REALLY need your help. Please read, but if you want to answer and just skip it, please answer and say you skipped this there. I WILL REALLY APPRECIATE SINCERE, USEFUL, ELABORATED ANSWERS, PLEASE...

GIRLS answers are REALLY appreciated

Here it goes. *sigh*

I have known this girl since I was 14 years old. I know I liked her then However, I wasn't looking for anything then, I so was blind. Girls weren't my priority. Time passed, and we became kind of friends, for I was so like her she began to like me-like me. I got to know it, and the very moment I knew she was expecting me to ask her out or sth of the sort, I stood back. I was not looking for anything with any girl then, or maybe she hadn't awaken the love I feel now yet. I just freezed and said nothing, most probably making her feel bad -or at least I would have felt that if I was her then.

Time passed, and she became 15. As promised by her, I was invited to the party, a party that would be a sweet 16 one in my country. As I saw her coming in, she awakened something on me that may never sleep again. I fell in love with her. So much. And she began to forget about me, for now I think of it I guess she had.

Now she had a boyfriend, and so I had to wait. The stupid things they wrote on their fb walls made me so bad sometimes. And the pictures of them kissing. And the words they use. Pure torture. And still I waited. Since then I wrote her three love songs. Beautiful. One of them, "I love you", just as that, being the evolution of my love towards her. And how much I loved her then.

Her relationship wasn't forever and it was over. I guess he cheated on her, perhaps for her not giving him sex or sth like that. Besides, being objective, the guy was ugly. I don't see what she saw on him. And I'm not being just mean for jealousy. Two years passed.

So it was my time to ask her out. When I did, she put a rather silly excuse.The only relationship with her was Facebook chatting. Our friendship was lost, except when I talk to her I talk like if we were friends from a lifetime.

SO HERE'S THE POINT. I'M TOO SHY. SHE LIKED ME ONCE. TIME PASSED. I ASK HER OUT FOR I AM IN LOVE WITH HER. SHE REJECTS ME MAYBE FOR ALMOST LOSING CONTACT (CHATTING REALLY RARELY). 9 MONTHS HAPPENED SINCE I ASKED HER AND WAS REJECTED. WE CHAT EVERY TWO MONTHS, BECAUSE I'M TOO SHY TO CHAT MORE AND BECAUSE SINCE I ASKED HER OUT SHE TAKES TOO LONG TO ANSWER ME EVERY TIME. MAYBE SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK TO ME. MAYBE I'M BOTHERING HER.

BUT I'M IN LOVE WITH HER.

This is my idea... I WANT TO TELL HER BY Facebook MY LOVE, AND SHOW HER MY SONG RECORDED. TELL HER WHAT I FEEL, NOT EXPECTING ANYTHING. I DON'T FEEL I STAND A CHANCE. BUT I REALLY LOVE HER.

We are both 19 years old now... A long time has passed

WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO? CHOOSE FROM THE POLL PLEASE ONLY IF YOU READ THE DETAILS HERE.

Help!

Oh, I love her... I love her so much.

Humans. What a difficult thing to even begin to understand, simple, fragile social creatures with ideals that may or may not match reality or even the basic necessities of their own social structures. Humans.

The question is simple: Do you believe in some element of human superiority? This is not the same as Hitler's little racist rant against the world, but genuine superiority, stronger genes, more intelligent bloodlines, physically more attuned bodies, things that are not only present but actually tangible realities of today. Things that we ignore.

I ask because I was faced with this today; a younger person who is completely better than I am at everything I've ever been able to do and can also do more than I ever will. This wasn't just some generational gap, no, it was genuine superiority. It isn't as if I am shaken, no, I'm proud of him, but at the same time I also recognize that as he is better than others at "everything" I am a better to many people "beneath" me. Then it became clear that the ranks are real. The denial of these ranks then began to bother me and I began to ponder why we do this.

It's always these sappy lines: "Everyone is good at something", but no, not everyone is exceptionally good at something. As a matter of fact throughout my life I've noted many people aren't really good at anything. It's no different than the lie about being whatever you want to be when you grow up; if you're incapable of mathematics you will not be a physicist no matter how cool you think it is. It just isn't true.

I used to reject the idea that there were any kinds of superior orders of humans when I was young. It was wonderful, really, because everyone was equal and capable and functionally the same. While today isn't the first time I've seen evidence to the contrary it is the first time I've just let the evidence speak for itself. So what do you think? Can you accept that the girl in HS you were jealous of that seemed "so great" at everything really was better at just about everything on average than you were? That the good looking guy who gets all the girls and all the accolades that you badmouth because you are hunting his flaws, well what if he is genetically superior to you? Better suited for the survival mission of life? Why do we arm ourselves with negative stereotypes in order to combat the harsh realities? All blondes are dumb? No. All jocks are stupid? No. So why do we hold to this?

I personally accept my intrepid fear of inferiority. I only fear it because it's real; it's the monster in the dark that you cannot beat that when he catches up to you will definitely devour you. But what if you were someone elses "Monster in the Dark?" What if you are the kid that is good at everything and better than peers?

Just the thoughts of an old man I guess. Comment as you see fit.

I'm I the only one who notices rude behavior from female users? Its funny how a guy can get warnings, and also have he's questions and or answers removed if it attacks a female users by calling her names like witch, whore, and stupid just to name a few. But when I read, answer and even ask questions 9 times out of 10 there's always a female user calling me a jerk etc? I believe an eye for an eye if I get called a jerk I, should have the right to call that girl a bitch. But yet my answer gets removed and I get a warning where as that same female user, who called me a jerk still has her comment/answer up. I've never answered a female users question by calling her a rude name. So why the double standard?