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When imeet my now wife, we were in love hard core, happy all the time, I've always treated her with respect and she was the only woman in the world i could see. Then she got pregnant, and shut changed, iwas happy about being a dad, and she acted like she was too. But out of no where she became a child bitch, talking about needing space and Shit. Then around our baby shower she started acting normal again so proposed to her, she accepts. Well, turns out she was cheating on me foramonth while6months pregnant. Ididn't find out till 4years later and on kid number2. Iuse to look at her with the love of the world in my eye. I seriously had a sparkle in my eye every time she walked into the room. And now, a full year afterD-day, ican't look at her with the same wonder, sometimes i can't even look at her in the eye. I love her so much, if she had told me when it happened i would have surely kicked her out. Causeb4 we made the commitment to each otherilayered it all out in the table, iwould never make her do anything, I'll always support act protect her, I'll deal with your crazy days and i can can handle anything you will go threw. Butican't handle being cheated on. That's it, I'll be there for you for the rest of your life if you want, just be faithful. and she agrees. So, she kept it a secret from Me for4 years, by this timei have started my life and family with her. It hurts knowing that I'm not important enough to fallow the1 thing i needed to be happy. We've been in Councling and she quit her job to stay home with thekids. But can't enjoy any of the pricless moments a man should with his family cause when they happen i kinda realise it, you know, those times you make a mental movie cause you know it's a milestone, and always get taken over by her fucking someone else and tearing apart our family. She has ruined my dad moments it seems. Is there any hope for us?

After a year of her living with me she got pregnant. I was driving her to beauty collage 5 days a week and she had a night job at Walmart after school. She was pregnant in top of this. So we only saw each other during my2hour break, i worked a job I hated, split shifts 6 days a week, I thought she was happy, I loved her with all my heart, she was my world, and I was so happy about being a dad. All of the sudden she starts treating me like crap, says we need some time apart! I knew that was bull, people told me she was cheating if she said that, but she was 5 or 6 months pregnant. I defended her every time. No one could be that fucked up! I was an amazing spouce, I went to jail and caught some felony charges for her, made her realize she was better than those who put her down, built her up in every way possible! She doesn't drive, so I drove here every where. And let her friend tiff, move in to my house! On fathers day, while still pregnant with my daughter, she says there going to the mall to get me a fathers day gift. She went and fucked this dude she had been working with. Come to find out she had been for a couple of weeks. I never knew till 4 years later. Then all of the sudden, she's back to normal. And I propose to her at one of our baby showers. And she said yes! Still never told me. Oh by the way, before we ever got into a realionship I have her the run down, I'd never make you do anything, your an adult, I'll pretty much put up with anything we go threw and I'll always be faithful and have your back above all others, 1 thing I won't/can't handle is you cheating on me. If your going to have enough respect for me to tell me so we can go our seprit ways. Cause I would never hurt you like that. And she agreed with love. We got married and had another kid b4 she ever told me. I love this girl so much, I wish she told me back then, I would have kicked her out. Now I've built my life around her and the kids, I don't know if I can lea