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I'm a guy who's into to fitness. I believe everyone must take of their health, and maintain their bodies. The same way they do for their stuff. Even if you're not the most physically fit, Or in the best health. You should still do what you can. Just like how you educate yourself and strengthen your brain. It should be the same physically. That's just my opinion!

When me and my girlfriend first started dating she had an amazing body and was in good shape. Her body looked identical to the singer Rihanna's. If you know you that is. She was never into fitness, but she did eat healthy and go to the park when she had a chance.

I don't know what's been going on the past year but she's just letting herself go. She stopped her quick 10 min morning workouts, and she barely eats because she's too lazy too cook all of a sudden. Now she's looks way too thin and unhealthy.

I tried to find out what's going on. I asked if she's sick with something. Facing a serious mental trauma she doesn't wanna talk about. She said no to all of that. Then I asked than what's going. Why has she given up on herself. I asked what can I do to convince her. I even told her she doesn't have to super fit. At least just take care herself. She said she's lost interest. Am I shallow for feeling this way?