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Soo we were in a long distance relationship for 9 months. We used to meet at least once a month. And now it's been more than 2.

1. Last time we saw each other ended up in me being moody and sad and in the end I told him "I wanna go home". He says "I wanted to ask you to move in with me but you were acting up"

2. Exactly 2 months ago, he asked me to visit his family for his mother's birthday. I said "do I really belong there?". He said yes, she loves you. But later he cancelled.

3. Then he asked me to visit me for a weekend. I said I was too busy with work. I lied.

4. Just a few days later he casually mentioned a vacation with friends. He didn't ask me to come. I understood it's only guys and they'd stay for a week. But then they decided to stay for another week. We barely spoke. And I saw posts on Instagram by his friend's girlfriend (so she was there! And there were some more girls that I don't know). However, I didn't ask him anything about it. I was just thinking, he will return, and then he will want to see me.

5. And he returned. And he broke up with me. Through text. He didn't give me any explanation except it's better to just be friends. I blocked him on whatsapp but he texted me on Instagram. "Why did you block me :(" And we kept talking every day a bit and he sent me money and he says he wants to take care of me even if we're not dating. And that I should go date someone else.

He says he loves me and misses me. I asked him ok and when will I see you? And he said he would visit me soon.
Today I finally started to feel like I'm over him and when he asked me how are you, I said relaxed. I told him to stop calling me cute names and sending me 😘 emojis and he asked me why. And he sent me some of our photos kissing and some photos of me I've never seen before. I just replied 😂😂😂 and he asked me "Do you want me to visit you?". And I said I'll tell you later.

So about his first ex girlfriend:
- they dated 5 years ago (in 2013*)
- she was his first girlfriend, first kiss
- he lost his virginity to her
- they dated for 6 months
- she left him for another guy
- he told me he was depressed after that for 3 years
- he said he thought he loved her but realized it was only lust (?)
- then dated another girl for 4 months before he met me

About our relationship:
- im his 3rd girlfriend
- we have been together for 2 years
- im his longest relationship
- im the only girl out of all his exes that he introduced to his parents
- he tells me he loves me everyday
- and yes we are very sexually active and have great sex

Do you think she was his first love?
Or me?

I know this guy online two years ago and he invite me to date but I keep on rejecting.

Today, he chatted me again and he recently just break up with his ex girlfriend a month ago.
I was single and so I already said yes to his invitation for a date. We went out together and it seems to be fun. But lately he was been in a silent treatment with me but I just don’t over it.

Then suddenly , he called me and say “He would like to invite me for a vacation on another island with his friends..” he said he has an extra ticket and he would like to give it to me. I was about to say “Yes” , but little did I know that was his ex girlfriend ticket. He wants to ask for my ID’s in order to pledge/ change the name. I get offended and I don’t know what to do anymore if I should go with him or not