Beautiful, handsome, this is what we used to care about, no not the looks but the heart and soul of the person. Everyone is beautiful\handsome in their own way. What am I talking about? Let's see.
I am really tired of today's beauty standards. We are getting over our heads, all the girls wants to look "Thick" or "Skinny", what are you thinking? do you care so much about your body that you forgot your mind and heart? I see girls looking like models, asking about how they look! are you blind?
And many times I see a really great girl with a heart of gold, insecure about themselves, WHY?
Guys! You didn't have a girlfriend, and never had a date, so what? You don't need to be mad about it, if you want to look good, look good for yourself, not for others. You know that looks won't matter much, stop trying to force yourself to buff or have a six pack. If you want it, do it for yourself!
I don't blame you for doing all of that, I blame our awful modern society where real beauty is not appreciated. Men are making comments about women, women are flaming and burning guys, why do you do that and make everyone feel insecure like you feel?
Time to calm down ....
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As you know, we all have our flaws and imperfections. People nowadays focus on those things and forget everything else that is great in a person. I know the eye sees what is there, but there is always.
More than meets the eye
I always look at any one, and even they don't look good or have a perfect body, I just take another look and see what beauty they have. It is always there but we just ignore it because of today's standard of beauty, it is true what they said...
beauty is in the eye of the beholder
And I am always impressed how it is in every one one of us, humans are amazing and they would never cease to be.
Sure, you can always go after what you want, we all have preferences but that doesn't mean that you reject anyone out your set of preferences. For once, try to look at the short guy, or the overweight girl, look at the eyes, the smile and trust me you will find something awesome.
I hope you open your eyes and see the real beauty. :)