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Im 26 and going to be buying a condo soon. My sister is 21 and wants to move out, but can't buy a condo yet. I get the sense that my parents aren't completely against the idea. It sounds rude, but if she is living with me then there's obligation to split equity. When I go to sell half of what I make will have to be hers. She has said herself that I could charge her for rent, but that's stupid to me. Our parents are giving her the option to live with them rent free until she can get her own place, but she'd rather have independence. Aside from splitting equity, I'm also concerned about how the idea would affect my social/ romantic life. I feel it would be kinda off putting if a girl knew I had my own place, but wasn't living by myself. Even though it is my place she would know she probably couldn't come over much and there would be no privacy.

Would this be a deal breaker to you?

~ I also hope I don't sound rude. If my sister was living on the street, of course I'd let her come live with me. But she is being given the option to still live with our parents rent free just as I did the same.

There is this girl I have been talking to every day for 3 weeks now. She lives thousands of miles from me. She is about to turn 15 next month.

Anyways, there has been a lot of red flags. I informed her that there will be no sexual activity between us until she is older. I made that clear.

Anyways, she informed me yesterday that her mom is taking a business trip to where I live and she is accompanying her mom and wants to see me while I am here. I have a gut instinct something is not right.

I have talked to her on the phone almost daily, but she claims she is not able to video chat with me and she has no social media. I looked up the numbers she has texted and called me on, and discovered they are burner numbers.

I am crushed. She is the only girl that has shown interest in me like this for a while. I am still hurting over this other girl that is about to marry some other guy in April.

This girl has at least kept me sane and kept me from feeling depressed over the other girl.

I am so crushed beyond words right now.

I've come across a lot of women in my life and I'm easy to talk to so they tend to open up and share personal details of our lives. In addition, I have a lot of female friends in my circle and have good insight into picking up on human behavior.

One thing I've notice is that a lot of girls who have issues with their dad, whether their dad left the family when they were young or they just had a poor relationship (aka resent him), often tend to be heavy alcoholics. I've also notice that said girls tend to be party girls and easy picking for fuckboys/players.

For example, I once knew a girl who just finished college and wanted to party her ass off before she officially started working. She got tricked by a guy who gave her a place to stay for the holidays and promised to show her a good time if she blew him. Needless to say she did it and the guy after getting serviced by her kind of ignored her ass and she spent most of her trip obsessing about this guy and how much of an asshole he is. And this girl's father is in her life but she considers him an asshole.

Another girl I know for example is heavily into fitness, social media and also drinks a lot. She has a bad relationship with her dad who she claims was abusive to her mom. Now she is in a relationship with a male who keeps their interaction a secret and has like little to no social media pictures with her. Basically keeping her as a secret booty call on the side, so that his main girl doesn't find out.

I have more examples but just wanted to know if women in general who have issues with their dad tend to gravitate towards fuckboys/players?