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When it comes to new love do you let it happen. Or do you self sabotage to prevent yourself from falling?

[Backstory]
I just got out of a 3 yr relationship in August last year and now I've been in a new one as of new years.

I think I'm falling for this guy because he's pretty fantastic but is it real or am i fooling myself.

Or am i sabotaging myself by thinking I'm fooling myself? Saying things like "its too soon" or trying to find faults in this guy etc.

So I met this guy on New Years and he was my New Years kiss and we hung out pretty much everyday after that for a month. There was an instant connection and we have so much in common. On our first date he picked me up in his car and took me to his farm house and cooked me a candle light dinner. I have met his parents, grandparents and brother and get along with them really well. He would always take me out on dates and we'd go do stuff together. (He always kisses me on the forehead, and gives me lots of little kisses everywhere, would you do this to just any girl? ) And he always calls me Gorgeous, cute, pretty and told me he loves me laugh. He'd open doors for me and reach out his hand for me etc . The problem is that when we met we were both in town just visiting our old homes and we now live on the other side of the country. We perused our relationship even though we knew we were leaving each other. And one day we were sitting in the couch and I was smiling at him and he said "it scares me when you look at me like that because your leaving soon" then he said "oh well it's better to have loved then have nothing" what does that mean! Could he tell I have feeling for him? On my last day in town he came over and as we were saying goodbye he said that we'll definitely see each other again. Now we talk almost everyday but sometimes he doesn't reply, but recently he says that he's thinking of moving next to the city where I live to study and always talks about a future with me. I have fallen in love with this guy and I think he loves me too but I'm not sure. Would you treat a girl you weren't serious about her? What's your opinion about this situation?