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I had been with my fiancé for about 2 years he lived with me at my parents house and I worked and provide for us cuz he didn't have a job he would get small jobs but they never lasted and I stayed cuz I love him but we would always fight cuz I felt this anger/ resentment towards him cuz I was always working and he never did anything but the deal breaker was last week I found out that he had been cheating on me he met her online in January and then met her in person she was a virgin and they had sex but only half way cuz she couldn't take it ( I talked to her and she told me everything ) he had my brother who's dating my ex bestfriend take him to meet her and he would pick him up and they would give him $ for gas that part hurt more cuz my brother and his stupid girlfriend must really hate me to help him cheat on me when I found out everything I broke up with him and kicked him out i was so hurt i punched him multiple times but anyways he went to live with his mom again and he promises that he will change we are still broken up but he won't stop calling me and I love him and I'm the only one who believes that he will change and that he can become someone in life he says he will do whatever it take to get me back and that he loves me and that he made a mistake and I of course I want to believe him by everyone tells me I should move on and I somewhat agree I feel like if I keep taking to him he will just stay the same but he so far has applied for jobs and i saw him two days ago to leave him his things he left at my house and I couldn't resist him I love him so much and I want to be with him that I slept with him again but it was more than just that we cried and hugged we looked into our eyes and touched each other like it was the last time and I know I shouldn't of but now I'm so confused and I don't know what to do nobody and I mean it when I say nobody wants us to get back together but I don't know what to do I fell so incomplete without him

So I have a current boyfriend. But he is back on the east coast the past few months dealing with family stuff.

But the past few weekends I've been seeing on Instagram that my EX freinds with benifits, that lives on the east coast now, and my current boyfreind are hanging out and taking selfies together. Every weekend.

And my ex knows I'm with this current boyfreind because he likes all the pictures I post of us together on Instagram. I'm not on speaking terms with my ex cuz but we still follow each others Instagram. but I don't even know how they met eachother or started hanging out.

And by the way. The relationship with my ex ended in 2016. And I didn't start dating my current boyfriend until the end of 2017. So there was about a 2 year gap between the relationships. I wasn't 2 timing.

I was with my ex for over a year, long distance, and the relationship ended a couple of months ago, initiated by him. I've been talking to him though and get the impression that he misses me and that he may want to get back togethor.
But there are bad aspects of him: firstly that he is a pretty bad communicator. We'd sometimes go days without talking to eachother because he was busy. I'd appreciate 1 hour everyday devotes to me like at least 5 times a week. Also sometimes he'd say he'd call/ trxt but never follow through. Secondly , he is the type of person that always wants to be out doing stuff, so he is always busy. Thirdly, he flirts with other women online. This really bothers me, and I don't know how I'd get him to stop that. Fourthly, this isn't a trait but my last birthday he didn't get me anything, not a card or anything, and that really upset me, the only explanation he gave me was that he was stressed at the time.
Despite all this we connect really well, and he has some really great attributes. I still love him, and as long as we see each other a few times a year and communicate well until we live togethor I'm alright with the distance. What's your opinion?