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If you have time pls read and answer this too. As a teen I used to be EXTREMELY down on myself. No confidence or self esteem, name any physical attribute on my body at all and I will tell you what I thought was wrong with it. Everyone around me would scold me for criticizing myself so harshly. Now that I have FINALLY grown out of those insecurities and accept myself as I am, I feel confident, I like how I look, but I NEVER express it in any way, so the response from others has been very strange. In my new workplace of about 50ppl I hear comments from guys talking to eachother, things like ''oh she thinks she's so sexy...'', ''she thinks all the guys are inlove with her...'', ''she thinks she is hotter than other girls...'' nothing close to what I actually think lol, I feel like I just recently grew out of years of self hate and learned how to love myself, but I don't love myself THAT MUCH. And the thing is this is not the first time, last place I worked I heard similar comments. I've been trying hard to understand how am I sending this vibe? I dress very casually, not revealing, I hardly ever wear makeup, I don't talk about my own or other appearances at all, I am not stuck up, nice to everyone, the only thing I can think of is I am a bit shy and quiet so perhaps they think I'm stuck up. So what could it be? How could they possibly come to conclusions like this?

I know this is kind of a ridiculous question; but yeah.

I haven't heard from him since midnight-yesterday. That was after texting him 3 texts. I sent one around 10am, one around 12pm AND one around 12am. I didn't think going 12 hours without texting someone and then deciding to was clingy? He said something about hanging out today if it was nice--and couldn't tell me that he changed his mind. Hence; we didn't hang (luckily the weather is rainy).

I'm pretty sure he was just upset about us not being able to have a threesome. We found a girl for it--but then we found out she was engaged and NOT going to leave her fiancee. This went on for about 3 weeks. I became close friends with her, and he was sort of acquaintances with her because seriously... how far can a man get talking to an engaged person?

It was doomed from the start, but I think we both really cared about her. THEN we find out she's moving a whole state over! I have no problem with long distance friendships--but I don't think HE sees the point in it at all. Instead of laughing about it like usual--he closes up and says; "No texting unless I respond from now on." I've never gotten the "okay to text him" today, yet.

I'm sitting here like...*I didn't break up with you, SHE ended this!*