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So my crush has teased me last year a lot and a bit this year when I talk to other guys and starts saying we like eachother or som. Recently him and I kinda have been talking a tiny bit and he’s seems really nice around me and today walking by me he said hey and stuff. I get the feeling he’s flirting but do you think he likes me or is just flirting?

This was my 2nd time going on a date with him and he was very touchy in the restaurant we went to such as holding my hand, laying on me basically in the booth, kissing me in public etc. So I went back to his place and we agreed to watch a movie. Long story short we ended up hooking up and after that he started acting different. In general I have a habit of apologizing and he said "stop saying sorry" pretty seriously like he was annoyed so I said does it bother you? And he said "a bit." And then he said he was going to sleep so I said I was going to go home or i could stay for a bit. He then just said he wasn't comfortable with me sleeping over and so I felt as if he didn't like me. I just think it's rude he told me to stop "trying to please hom" when I really wasn't and was more or less just trying to be nice by applogizing. He didn't know me very well and also was teasing me for the way I was saying "okay" by imitating me. Anyways also a reason I thought he'd be okay with spending more time together that night was because he was the one who was so affectionate in public. So I asked him if he liked me and he said it takes time where I felt a bit used as he was acting differently after we hooked up. He then said I was emotional and he didn't know why and said he thinks we view dating differently so I asked him if this was more casual for him and he said no but wanted me to leave. So eventually I left but by the door he basically just said he wasn't going to call me again and I cried when I went home because I just felt like he was such an asshole and I went to go visit him so I wish he was at least a better host?

In my personal opinion, I have average looks and intelligence. However, people have told me differently and I feel they’re lying about these positive opinions. From when I was in middle school to very recent, at the age of 23, girls/women have been nasty to me. And when I attempt to evaluate how I may have attributed to this treatment, I don’t believe I really did anything. It was usually for petty stuff. Even family members have said a lot of negative things about me behind my back or to my face.

Men on the other hand don’t really bother me. I presume I’m not attractive to them because I wasn’t really teased by them growing up or am not approached in public. The only attention I generally get from guys is on dating apps and we know how shady those sites can be.

I dont know if people just dislike my personality/appearance or maybe there is another underlying reason behind their behavior