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Ugh I’m such a negative mess. Do you know deep down when you’ll end up alone? I’m going to be 27 this year and never had success with the dating apps. I was on and off for years but it just doesn’t work. I was skinnier and still didn’t get much attention from the apps. I NEVER get approached in person and don’t have friends that can introduce me to guys. It just stings every time as a yr passes by and I’m perpetually single.

I just can’t find a guy I want to date. But part of me is kind of on the “asexual” side. I know I’m not asexual but I have a very low sex drive. I haven’t had sex in three years but I think the right person would probably change that. My mom and people also say I haven’t found the right person.

It’s like I am terrified of ending up alone but don’t know if I’m okay with being sexual with a man…make sense?

I am in my mid twenties and never been in a real relationship. The one guy I did date, I felt like I had to settle because no one better came around. He was a decent person but I wasn’t physically attracted to him. I was always under the impression that my lack of attraction from guys was because of my weight.

A few years later, I’m still thick but definitely smaller than what I was before. I don’t have friends so I have to use the apps to meet people and as you’d assume it’s a disaster. I mean I’m told I’m cute, some say pretty etc but I just can’t find a man. The ones I was physically attracted to only want sex and the ones that pursue me have decent personalities but they’re too short for my preference or just not attractive to me.

I see women often that are average or maybe heavier than me, with guys I find good looking, and really wonder how they were able to find them. I feel if I settled with any of the guys I mentioned I attract, I will always feel bothered at the fact that I can’t get the kind of man I really want. So that’s why I stay single, it seems permanent considering I’m only getting older and told myself this would improve as the years go by.