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These days i feek like almost every girl/woman below the age of 30 has a snapchat filter on every picture they post.
I just dont understand why, it makes them look like they paste a pancake on their faces, it just makes no sense.

can't say i have been in many long term relationships but i have dated, however i still have friends who date and i read questions here and there about such situations... and basically if a man demands his woman not wear clothes too revealing, not like some guys pics on social media and to not flirt with men and such behaviors he is called backwards, insecure, controlling and a bad boyfriend material.

yet when women do the same (yes they do) no one cares, my friend told me his girlfriend gets super furious if he looks at another woman while with her or if another woman looks at him, if he is somewhere with his friends and doesn't tell her or if he likes pics of some girls on facebook that she doesn't like... and he's not a lone a lot of women are super jealous like that and make an issue out of something that most men dont even pay attention to.

so why is it bad if a man has reasonable expectations and doesn't like his girls body to be on show for every single dude out there and hates that she flirts with other men but when women do it its cool?

A married woman that I might at a Poetry Club messaged me a year later. She said she was planning a new poetry club. We met at an art museum. I met her mother and we all hung out. She said she had told her mother about me a lot. I dont know why. We Had coffee, shared our writing and talked literature... but we never spoke of the new poetry group she claimed to have set the meeting with me for. The other guy she said was going to come suddenly couldn't make it.

Afterwards she messaged me and said she was "charmed" by me "honestly". Then said, "You are good and nice. Hehe. This is me being blunt. Don't mind." Whatever that means. Then she said that I speak fine and sweetly and saw a clip on my FB profile "singing well". She had shown up with a ceramic gift with a couple books for me to keep. I thanked her for that. She asked me to think of her as her friend and be more open about the true feelings in my poetry. I simply told her that my poetry was very sensual about my inner demons and semi-biographical and such. Then she asks, "What did you think of me?"

Toward the end of our follow up convo she says, "I thought you were smart and serious... great sense of humor. You look good in suits. I wish I could help you with girls. I do that for my friends. You like what kind of girls?"

Anyway, long story short. I hadn't seen her in about a year. We had some pictures together that day. Throughout the entirety of the meet upI felt this strange sexual energy. Like an intense horniness. I saw her looking me up and down in my blazer. I saw her fold her arms nervously while walking beside me. And she would raise her chin with wide eyes when talking to me. She was married, but if her other wasn't there I feel we'd have made out or had sex. It was that intense.

What are YOUR STORIES?

I'm a 103lbs/47kg and 5'7'/170cm guy. So I'm normally weaker than most of male classmates and on the averange with female classmates. I've ever be stronger than some women and weaker (apparently, I've never fought against one) than others, while men generally are stronger than women.
I never saw women as peopple who i have a physical superiority against (and much less having a pretty balls point between the legs). I have the same musculature than a woman, same body just without boobs, narrower hips and other genitals. I dont know if, to the rest of men, being stronger than women makes them feel more secure and invulnerable when they are with woman. And I dont know if to women being weaker than men makes them feel, in some way, a bit insecure or vulnerable when they are with men. After all they are stronger than them
Anyway. As I said I'm 47kg so I'm not much stronger than women, this is why I ever felt thaw women never saw me as some who respect to. I mean I've ever thought than being 103/47 made me be looked less respectable to women, you know, "I dont need be respectfull because he is not stronger than me and couldnt defeat me easy in a hypotetical fight against me". But by the other hand i think that i also could be looked as less thertening to women and making them feel more comfortable with mefor being 47kg/103lbs guy.
Do girls see a 103lbs in some way different than other men? Less respetable? More comfortable? They cares more about a "non-strong" guy?

I hope that you understood me and what i meant, English is not my first lenguage and i make some mistakes.
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