Why do only Indian men hit on me? Why can't attractive males hit on me? Are there any good men left except?

[masterofalltrades]

Im in finance sector and earns pretty well and had travelled over 30 countries for work, Im currently in Sevilla, Spain. In Sevilla I had seen some handsome tanned hunks

Believe me these types of men are pretty common in Sevilla. I know that all of the people dont look that handsome but nearly 70-80 are literally very handsome and masculin. But the problem is that they remain at home and play fuckin% video games at their dad's place.

These types of handsome, chivalrous and caring men everyone expects but here is the reality:

Well what happened to the guys of this generation? Boys dont even now go to colleges , they are the minority in the west. It is tough to date as a woman as there are very less options. Im Italian and have an olive toned skin, brown hair, size-8, height-5-6. But only Indian men hit on me, why can't any decent looking and well mannered guy dont hit on me? What are the expectations of good guys? Why are they setting their standards way too high?

[maihu]

Why all this hate for Indian Men? Why are you venting your frustration for looking ugly on Indian men?
And if you do think that Indian men are not "decent looking" and that no "decent looking" guy is approaching you, maybe it is because you are not a "decent looking" girl. Maybe you look like one of the men who you have shown in the reality part, and they thought you are exactly like them, so it's not their fault if you look like them.

I'm sorry but I had to say this because this post made me really uncomfortable. You are not a good human being.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Somehow this post makes me uncomfortable... So much hats for Indian men. I'm not Indian, but what is this trend all about? Either way, I think if these "handsome hunks" aren't approaching you, it's because they don't want you. Plan and simple. You seem entitled and stuck up to be honest.

[Savager]

Savage

[Jok3r21]

How can I double like this answer 🙂 , well damn Said

[masterofalltrades]

Well the Indian guys are raised in such a way to treat women as trash i had personally seen that they are the worst when compared to white, latino, Asian (mangloid), black even the arabs which are portrayed as opressors of women are better when the manners are to be considered. I had personally observed that and many women of the Indian origin had said the same to me in the universities. Those women warned about the incident that happens regularly in India. Rapes, catcalling, paedophilia, killing baby girls etc you can double check that from BBC , CNN, fox news or even their own media outlets. ANd they are generally repulsive like they are mostly stinky, bad breath, short heights, no personal space dont have sense to how to treat women. Irony is that the ugly ones think that they are handsome. Well excluding some really handsome dudes in bollywood alll other dudes in bollywood are plain. And Im yet to see a guy from India who is average or above average.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Whatever you say Snooki.

[masterofalltrades]

Yeah what an exit xD you know im right

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I know you're ignorant and heavily generalizing. It's like me saying Italians are greasy and look like monkeys with makeup

[masterofalltrades]

Well a typical exit. you know that im right that what i mentioned above in the reply.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I know you're wrong. It's heavy generalization at its best. Seriously. Maybe you personally have experienced these individuals in your life but their not representative of the majority or entire population. The way you labeled Indian men seems patronizing and hateful. I think everyone on this post KNOW you're not only wrong, but hateful to Indians.

[masterofalltrades]

OMG so you are claiming that the media outlets which are the most respected are wrong? You are pretty ignorant. I dont hate Indians I see Indian women are pretty. But most of the Indian males aren't. Thats my point.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

You just need to get fucked hard by an Indian. You'll reconsider after that 😆🤣

[masterofalltrades]

Huh sorry im not ignorant like you who diverts the topic and dont talk from verified sources and talks bs

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Believe me, you're the ignorant one. Besides, this is a troll post, so I'm trolling.

[masterofalltrades]

You yourself are a troll why do you need to troll?
You need to start watching BBC , CNN , al zazeera etc. to know the truth

[PoliceLivesMatter]

You're trolling so hard lmfao. CNN? 🤣🤣😂🤣🤣. Truthful? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Savager]

Fucking A CLASS troll

[PoliceLivesMatter]

"CNN" and "truthful" in the same sentence? That's the tell lmao

[masterofalltrades]

What else can we expect from a trump supporter. He himself is an anti women prick. Thats why you are defending males here

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Oh god, you're abhorrent lol. I see where you're coming from now

[masterofalltrades]

Typical right wing shit.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Typical Italian greasy slut shit

[masterofalltrades]

what can you expect from the right wingers shuting down women and mansplaining is what they can do

[PoliceLivesMatter]

This isn't about right or left. You made it that way when you brought up CNN.

[Savager]

Say something woman, I'm enjoying this

[masterofalltrades]

@Savager Only trump fans say that about CNN and trump fans are fascists

[Savager]

Say something CNN non believers

[Aguy565tt]

A person who believes on something shown on news blindly is plain stupid. lol

[Joshelias]

Woah! Some pretty gross words. I admit some men are promiscuous but not all. Also note that this culture of segregation was introduced by the British in India. Dividing communities , organising violence all of that was part of your western agenda. Some men are pretty much crap in India that is mostly poor and drunkards. I am an Indian and who can better explain it. For example my locality: my mother is more educated (graduate) than my father. My father never dares to raise hands on my mother because he knows if he does she'll break it off😂. Another example my maternal grandma and her sisters were the highest earning members of the family. Even their husbands earned less. I acknowledge the fact that it is difficult sometimes. Rapes happen in your countries too (most unreported) at least Indian women have the courage to report them. And about news they just want to bluff ok any topic they get. They are basically hypocrites and those girls from India you talked about might have been right for their region. It depends you see. You cannot call the whole population bad. And all those uncle pictures you posted they seem to be married. And a married man dare not cheat on his wife in India or else the society will beat him up. So be careful with what you say!

[ArkhamsKnight]

"Well the Indian guys are raised in such a way to treat women as trash i had personally seen that they are the worst when compared"

Either you're trolling , or you're complete idiot , they are stereotypes , yes there have been rapes , sexist and misogy but it's was common like 10-20 years ago things have changed since percent of those has gone down by quite a lot , and most Indians living abroad are USUALLY white washed some for good but some are just straight up arrogant who wants to date a white guy/girl.

Hating a race cause you had a bad experience with couple of dudes from that race isn't fair , well hope some hunky dory Henry cavill like dude hit on you , and talking of news articles BBC , CNN has always made India look like slum shithole , believe me it isn't it's far better thab what those media try to portray India as.

[snowshy]

Wow... that's rude you know. It's okay to have a type but clearly you are theirs. I'm sure they are just trying to be friendly.

Just make sure you clearly say you're not interested from the beginning so you don't waste your time or theirs.

Maybe you're not attracting the guys you like because you're not 'their' type. If you're putting out negative energy, people won't want to deal with you no matter how good looking you think you are

Maybe your standards of yourself are higher than they should be

[masterofalltrades]

Well its pretty common for females to date either at their own level or to date higher their level. Well any girl won't accept to date lower their standard. Chivalry, good manners, treating me like a lady, tall height, being attractive is the basic requirements and its not fancy i guess?

[snowshy]

One, that's not true. Some people date people based on actually loving them and not solely based on whether they think they're both 3 out of 10s or 10 out of 10s.

Plus, you suggested very clearly that Indian men aren't attractive as 'only' they hit on you. That's rude. While you don't owe anyone a date, you act as though you deserve better and better is a non-Indian.

Your attitude about the whole thing would certainly put me off if I were a guy interested in you and even as a female it does

[masterofalltrades]

But you can't prove me wrong either right? They do have some problems with females in general they burn the ladies alive, rape, catcall, terrorists, harassment, treat women like trash i had seen it and it is backed by the females of the Indian origin too. And al zazeera, CNN, FOX all portrays the same. Even BBC portrays that ( i checked you are from britain) morever they are not that handsome like the male bollywood models no country is having their population as their film industry but they are not even close by a good margin. I had seen a lot of handsome latinos, whites, blacks, magoloids but hardly seen a handsome Indian men. Indian men are feminine, small heights despite working in UK, Canada and US (where they are a lot). But you know what bad looks can be compensated with good manners, treating a lady ladylike, to be chivalrous this is also missing in most of them.

[snowshy]

Magoloids? You're not even worth more of a reply - you're disgusting.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@masterofalltrades not allwho are so called tall will you find attractive. Saying they need to be attractive says nothing because attractiveness is subjective.

[ReenaJohnson]

Saying someone is mongoloid isn’t racist. They’re just describing how people of SE Asian or E Asian descendence look like. But saying shit about Mongoloids on the other hand would make them racist.

[Joshelias]

If you want to get respected then stop crapping guys even if they are low standard.

[Joshelias]

So you want to date so that Instagram or Facebook should call you a cute couple. Oh damn ! You're gonna die lonely and not find true love.

[Stellastarling]

Fyi that is pretty stereotypical. You are just basing certain people as ugly. Not everyone has the same tastes as you do. Some people might like these men, some might not. Also, if you so want to get a guy have the courage to ask them out. Obviously these men do. Also, there are many attractive young Indian men, Australian men, English men, Italian men etc. You might just want to expand your circle and broaden your horizons. It might bring you some luck.

[Anonymous]

Guess what hon? These guys are Indian but I guess you only attract Indian guys on your level 😂 hot and ugly people in every race and you just happen to be an ugly one

[Opinion Owner]

@PoliceLivesMatter well said 👏🏽

[masterofalltrades]

im not talking about models im yet to see some handsome common males i had been to UK, Canada, AUstralia and US a lot of times, i hadn't seen one who is well mannered and dont treat women as trash and is handsome, just ask any female of Indian origin on the college campus and she will also warn you about Indian men.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol you and I are from a different planet because I see good looking ones everyday but ur dumb ass probably can't even tell he's Indian 😹

[masterofalltrades]

Huh posting the pics of Indian models and saying that Indian males are handsome wow.
They treat women as trash, they kill baby girls, rape, catcall, harass i had Indian females as friend they keep me up to date i know , you might be an Indian man with a fake id lol

[MysteriousDarkness]

@masterofalltrades There are people of other races and nationalities that kill baby girls, rape, catcall, harass etc so what is your point?

[hungry_charizard]

THANK YOU COMMENTER

[alessandro_02]

They do look Caucasoid, though. Northern indians differ just like Northern Italians differ from those of the South.

[Ailaw22]

From what i understand you find us unattractive giving example of hot Bollywood hero and models also not going to change your mind cuz then you will find fault in other things
I personally came here to know if girls from other nation find me decent looking or not , i was aware of common belief about us anyhow opinions were very positive here
You have a very limited thinking dont know what a handsome men will find in you if you get one god bless him😂😂

[JasDhanjal]

Aren’t models humans, dumbass?😂😂😂 it’s their profession.

[Aguy565tt]

The non-Indian hot guys you posted are models too. lol

[Medicalbug]

I have to chime in with general shock being expressed here regarding the hatred towards Indian men. Like all other men, there are some very good looking, charming Indian guys out there. I went to school with quite a few smart, funny and attractive Indian guys at university and they were very popular with the girls. Two white friends of mine married/have relationships with Indian men and are very happy - I am personally quite envious!
I mean clearly even racial preference is a choice during partner selection, but this weird stereotype of undesirable Indian men who act like caricatures has got to disappear. I’m currently watching an Indian show right now and I were 10 years younger and Venkatesh Pandey crossed my path, I’d make sure he’d stay for at least a drink or two. Or more. Lol.

[shubhamchachapara]

Upto now I has seen some rude opinions on indians. But now I have seen a question too.
Your first question is not endurable to our community. If you want a handsome guy you should approach them. why didn't you uploaded at least one good pic of us. Of course it doesn't matter cause Beauty is in eyes of beholder. You create wrong impression that not even single indian is handsome by asking first question.

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[goddess87]

Only an idiot wouldn't think shahid kapoor is hot 😍

[goddess87]

So is harith roshan (sp)

[shubhamchachapara]

Thank you my goddess

[johnyash1324]

its not only about looks but indian men have " smallest penis in the world" after the korean , so they just can't even find condoms of their size in european countries, but you will never hear this from your indian female friends because they never hooked up with an indian guy.
I agree in general indian men are not attractive compared to western men but what i don't like about western men is that they don't have a future thinking , literally i was talking to some new hot guys in germany and i asked them what they wanna do in life? they were 32 year old and said " we don't know yet" like wtf man, you lived half your life and you don't even know what to do... just so dumb
BUT they have bigger penises and better body than indian men. i''ll rather be single than dating western or indian men , i prefer African !!!

[JasDhanjal]

This post proves that you know nothing about India. The pictures you have intentionally mentioned on Indian men to defame the image image of India are the people from South India. Whereas people of North India are totally different from them in skin color, face features and height. Pretty sure you haven’t come across a Punjabi guy because Punjabis are known for their good looks and overall personality, so stop portraying a whole nation under one category, because India is not a country, it’s a mini world with 1000+ ethnicities unlike Africa where everyone is black , has wide nose and weird hair. You might be ugly, that’s why same kind of men approach you. For more, have a look on 2016 Mr. World (ugly Indian, according to you) from Punjab and you will realize how dumb you are by saying that all Indian men are dark.

[JasDhanjal]

Also many foreigners are married to Indians, which proves that the problem is in you.

[ReenaJohnson]

I know that in Spain, the machismo culture is long gone. In Western Europe for the most part, equal rights isn’t something to play around with, so obviously, you’re going to have to approach them. If u want a guy to hit on you, I’d say try Eastern Europe for luck. Try Latino guys, black guys, Middle Eastern guys and such. U can’t compare India and Spain since in India the culture is much different.

[Aguy565tt]

middle eastern guys are big on patriarchy

[goddess87]

Racist much? Guy two kind of looks douchey and two there are actually some hot Indian men out there. There are tons of different races, religions, languages, etc in India. They don't all look like that. For example, southern Indians tend to be darker while nothern indians are typically more fair.

[tokenbrownguy]

What a stupid answer.

[Crlm1007]

Well you are posting Pique's picture for proving your point. He is a world class Spanish player. Had won World cup, Euro cup , plays for one of the best teams in the world both for the country and for his club. He has attracted Shakira. You need to slightly lower down your expectations.

[masterofalltrades]

Well I dont need to lower down my standard every girl either date from their standard or above their standard. Indian men do pretty repulsive stuffs. If their wouldn't have been that shitty arranged marraige then you Indians guys would have been died single- that thing came from my Indian female friend. Thats fucking true. You guys lack charisma. Its pretty evident we saw Indian females with handsome latinos, whites, blacks etc. But hardly seen any Indian dude with a good looking western girl.

[Crlm1007]

Its alright to not lower your standards but you need to stop ethnic bashing it shows that you are expecting manners when you yourself are not showing manners right?

[Odysseas]

It seems like the problem you have with Indian guys is based more on stereotypes about their personality, rather than actual appearance. With this part, I can't help you because I am not Indian neither I have any Indian friends, so I can't tell if the stereotypes have a dosage of truth in them. I can help, with your standards regarding appearance though. You said " Well I don't need to lower down my standard every girl either date from their standard or above their standard.". The first part of the statement is ok, there is nothing wrong with you wanting to date someone who is similar to you, aka on your level of outer appearance. It's the second part that is problematic. Think about it logically, if a girl wants to date above her level it means automatically that the said man, who is above her, has to date below his level in order for her to have a relationship with him. The question is, why a man should be open to date below him when women do not return the favor?

[masterofalltrades]

@Odysseas Because thats the norm women put in a lot of efforts to find their mr. right, Men are giving up upon marraiges , they are failing and opting out of colleges. Currently females are dominating on the campuses except in maths and computer science. So its easier for men to choose better females so women generally get shitter males so its right for them to date above their standards and that is what it is encouraged

[masterofalltrades]

@Odysseas ANd its not about stereotypes it is correct see this they burn the widows, kill female kids, etc etc that too is coming from an Indian girl (my friend, and is also on the gag site itself i can't post the link as i have less points , you can see that yourself) itself.

[Odysseas]

Just because something is the "norm" doesn't mean that it's also the right thing to do. Norms change as time passes on. The Romans and the Greeks had different norms than other civilizations and those norms have changed throughout the course of history. Another example: Some decades before, the norm was that women shouldn't work or have careers of their own, by your logic women should have said "ahhh ok... it's the norm we should suck it up", well they didn't they fought against the norm. It seems though that you only care to change the norms that make your life difficult as woman, but when a norm turns the tide in your favor, it's for the best to stay as it is...

[masterofalltrades]

@Odysseas So you are saying that burning women, raping, harassing, catcalling, oppressing, no rights, killing baby girls etc are good? are you in your mind?

[Crlm1007]

Well all of these cruelity are punishable and these things are outdated and not believed to do perform these things by the majority. India is a secular, democratic country. It can't bear inequality. You need to understand that in minority of the cases people are witnessing cruelity the major chunk believe that these acts which you are mentioning is cruel.

[Odysseas]

Do you lack the basic ability of reading properly? are you good in your mind?
When did I say that all of those horrible things are good? What I am saying is that you like the fact that you can "date up" aka find a man more good looking than you, more successful than you, more educated than you or whatever "more" you can imagine but you wouldn't like it if men were doing the same to you... For example let's say, that you are a 6/10 regarding appearance. and you want to date a man who's 8/10 in points of beauty. Now in order for you to date him, thus for you to date up 2 points, he has to date down 2 points to meet you. What I've asked was, why a man should date down in order for a woman to date up, when the said woman wouldn't have done the same for him if the roles were reversed. Your answer to that was "because it's the norm" and I am saying to you that the only reason you are following this norm is because it suits you, if the norm was reversed you would call for unfairness.

[Joshelias]

For a fact arranged marriages involve the will of the groom and bride. If the bride does not approve she can reject the groom and vice versa. There are elements of patriarchy but can't you just keep your shitty ideas to yourself. And you talk about Indian men being trash. Also know that Indian men don't seek only lovers in women but also friends who will understand them better than guys. Personally I have many female friends and I have never looked at them in any other way. What you just said about us is so toxic. All of those friends will disagree. Talk about Latinos and beauty and all that God did not create everyone to be beautiful or to have a good physique. He has blessed everyone with their talents. You cannot trash someone for their looks. You're awful. And also Indians marry westerners. For example my uncle married a Russian and an other uncle married a phillipino and another one married a British girl. All of them are good looking. Far better than you. Detox yourself. Then you'll get good guys for yourself.

[kabir148]

Ok so first thing there are a lot of indian guys who are handsome and if you doubt that than just look for asia's sexiest men and you will find our guys on top but i won't blame you cuz maybe the place where you grew up taught you to not use your mind and be a dumbo secondly if men are not approaching you than its you who is ugly so better start using your brain if thats not too much for you

[AlexEfron]

You sound like every Indian is a disgusting unattractive person. (By the way I'm Indian)

And if you really wanna get a guy (and he's not hitting on you), why don't you try approaching first? Drop your ego and make the move 😎

[Anonymous]

Why would any hit on you? what's in it for them? There are so many more better things to be doing with time.

Having said that, I was once stupid enough to go around hitting on women, but those days are over. Maybe those guys made the same decision. Maybe you should approach them to congratulate them on a decision well made...

[Anonymous]

I am sorry that has happened to you. I have some Indian friends who are pretty handsome and well mannered.

I think if you search for the correct man, instead of waiting for that person, you m

ay attract good guys!

Does this guy look bad? He might not be as hot as those Seville guys... but isn't he sober and polite looking?

[Opinion Owner]

I couldn't upload the pic sorry... I don't know how it is done

[HalfKoreanGerman]

There is something called like the dating ladder. You always stay at a level or try to climb up. So you are trying to reach the men some steps upwards, but they dont want to reach down. But those indian men you dont like want to reach up to you. So you are hot enough for indians but not as hot as you think

[masterofalltrades]

Hmm i guess you are correct. But nowadays western males are dropping out of colleges and stuff , the campuses are female dominated so how to meet the perfect ones. Thats the problem

[AshrafWest]

First of all , even Spanish men shouldn't hit on you. They should approach you. The solution to your problem is , if they don't come to you, you go to them

[Ucantcme619]

In a way yes u r right. Indian men lack decency definitely.
And when it comes to looks again u r right, Indian men are not good looking but Indian women are. Also if you want men like you said who are good looking, try to stick to Southern Europe. Everywhere else you will find ugly men.

I am an Indian male by the way.

Best luck

[meatballs21]

Yeah, it's totally the fault of innumerable guys, it couldn't possibly be you, princess.

[masterofalltrades]

I came from the society where males hit on women and in recent times no one is hitting on me because western males are dropping of the colleges and they are very few left. Thats a pretty sad thing.

[Sathakbizz]

This lady here thinks herself to be a Spanish princess. But be aware if u r pretty doesn't means that men will hit on u, because all those so called decent men there can judge a lady by there personality , hence , the can judge that you (may be pretty) but have a rotten heart. Also, I could show u tons of images of different nationalities similar to those indian ( Below Poverty Line men ) . Moreover because of your attitude and ego you don't deserve such hot men.

[Sathakbizz]

This lady here thinks herself to be a Spanish princess. But be aware if u r pretty doesn't means that men will hit on u, because all those so called decent men there can judge a lady by there personality , hence , the can judge that you (may be pretty) but have a rotten heart. Also, I could show u tons of images of different nationalities similar to those indian ( Below Poverty Line men ) . Moreover because of your attitude and ego you don't deserve such hot men.

[este1864]

Indian guys don't have standards. They see a western woman and they're like hounds to a fox. No da like African men.

[Crlm1007]

No da like African men?

[jersos1]

I have seen Indian guys who are kind and respectful. You can't judge anyone like that. Right?

[Wurdom]

Why would anyone wanna be with a shallow chick like you is beyond me

[Jok3r21]

You deserve the right guy , he will come around one day , hang in there , your post was pretty uncomfortable by the way... But I felt like throwing you some faith. Be patient and hopefully everything will go your away

[masterofalltrades]

Yeah I will not give up but my post was on point.

[Jok3r21]

Your post was totally of point. just because you observed Indian men like that, doesn't mean all of them are like that. Again if I see an Italian female as a slut, doesn't mean all of them are sluts... wrong!

[masterofalltrades]

Yeah but BBC, CNN, al zazeera, fox news and Indias own media outlets won't lie

[Jok3r21]

True... They won't lie, but if they said all humans stupid on media, would you believe that? And consider yourself a stupid ass?

[masterofalltrades]

huh had you seen Indias daughter documentary? India banned that because of their patriarchial society. That explains itself

[Jok3r21]

I think I should watch italian news and documentary, and start classing italian people on what I see hmmm

[masterofalltrades]

Sure Italian media is not that harsh on Italian men like Indian media is. Moreover Indian men are criticised all over the planet for patriarchial norms and succumbing women. No one likes criticism hence it is hurting you right?

[Jok3r21]

All over the planet 😂... What other Indians do is there business, not gonna hurt me in any way. if I'm that type, it will hurt. But I'm not.. so nope 🤗

[Sathakbizz]

Yeah u know nothing except BCC , CNN bla.. bla.. let me make it clear to u as a citizen of India I know more about my country than u. So let me explain.. having one of the finest defence (4th largest) in the world and also having one of the finest intelligence agency... is it so easy for BCC , CNN bla.. bla.. to gather an information or news from inside India and portray it to the world.. these news angecies never had such power but the reason you could watch this is because we the people of India want everyone to know the crimes against women and Anti terrorism.. which ur country doesn't cause after all they have a big reputation even when I saw more violent crimes than India.. so they are like breeding a Devil in their own nest to feed on them one day... yes India has no reputation (Even after launching probe to Mars at a far cheaper cost than NASA, finding first water on Moon, and no wonder how many scientific and social breakthroughs and providing help to other countries in need) which your nation isn't even capable of.. so u r like a frog born in a dark well who could watch nothing but BCC and CNN while the whole world is left to explore outside that we'll... Also speak about the people whom u took interview of I believe they will say the same thing hundred years from now cause there are many of our own country who doesn't leave a single moment to disrespect their own country even if situations are very opposite to what had been 50 years from now... So good luck with BCC and CNN I hope that you will find a hot guy on those news agency... peace.

[hungry_charizard]

Oh come on that's NOT what all Indian men look like! They all look like street vendors and paan eaters. They'd be attracted to anything with a vagina
Don't generalize, man