Search Results: will not leave me alone

Guys, My boyfriend of one year hides me on social media, likes other girls' photos, and sometimes ignores my messages. Red flag? Is this dump worthy?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We both have told each other that we are committed and serious about one another. We’ve met each other’s families. He’s met my friends, but I haven’t met his. I’ve...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Why do I find lazy people so repulsive? Anyone else or just me?

I literally can't stand adults who live in excuses like brats. It physically makes me sick to be honest. If all you're going to do is moan and moan about life, about the things you conto ually choose, please just shut the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend went against plans and invited his thief brother to move with us?

What can I do about this, if anything? So little backstory, his brother has stolen prescription meds and money from us. Nothing over the top, but still stole nonetheless. And recently, to top it all off, he went around...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I being too hard on my best friend for being distant with me after his brother used and hurt me?

My best friend's brother came on to me and pursued a relationship with me. I was reluctant to tell my friend at first because I'm 14 years older than his brother, and he believes that because there's no instances of women...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Ha flaked. Now he asks to see me again. Should I give him another chance?

It’s been a year we know each other but we started chatting online on a regular basis in January. In February we had a first date which went well and we were planning to meet for the second one when the covid lockdown...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He was Married 23 years but wants to be with me. What do I do?

I got myself in a pretty messy situation. I started working for this company almost a year ago and from the first day I saw him I liked him. I was with someone for two years at that time so i knew it was a tad odd that i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If after a month of talking as friends and a guy hasn't asked for ur # or said he likes u, r u in da friendzone? How do I get out the friend zone?

Men3aing how do i get him to stop seeing me as a friend and leave me totally alone? I dont wanna keep hoping he will ask me out.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I keep pursuing this guy?

I matched with this guy on Tinder two weeks ago. He told me he wanted a reason to delete Tinder, so I decided that maybe this guy would be a good person to go slow with. We haven’t had sex yet but we have kissed. He lives...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Please help me?

I was talking to a guy for literally TWO DAYS and I wasn’t feeling it, he’d say shit like oh I want us to cuddle and send me memes of people cuddling and be like this is going to be us, but also that’s all he’d say and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to win my ex baxk?

Two weeks ago, my ex broke up with me. He broke up with me because he assumed something that wasn’t true and kind of just snapped. In the time that he’s broken up with me, he’s gotten a promotion at work, he’s finally...

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Xper 5 Age: 30

Was the guy even really interested in me or did he try to use me?

I knew a guy (Let's call him John). I just came out of a break up and John started messaging me, saying: "He wants to help me get through the break up, because he know how it feels and went through a 2 year break up just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Marriage & Weddings

What do you think of the situation with Wil Smith, Jada Pinkette Smith, and August Alsina?

I think will and Jada have abandonment issues that they mutually decided to solve with their “bad marriage for life” solution. It’s a messy way of dealing with a fear of being alone by saying I may not like this person...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I resist cheating?

My girlfriend left to help her sister move and pick up a cat, for 8 days, a day after my mother died. I told her to go. But I was numb. She had the gall to say, after realizing how much I'm hurting here all by myself,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What do you think will happen? Will he wish me on my birthday?

We met almost a year back and had a spark instantly. We used to be together all the time and hold hands in private to the point that our classmates thought we were dating. Then just before exams, corona virus happened and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Dating a much younger man has drastically increased my insecurities about aging. How do I deal with these insecurities in this relationship?

I started dating a guy a lot younger than me (I'm 42. He's 25). We've been officially dating for about 6 months. Every other man I've been with has been at least 1 year older than me. I would have never thought I would...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Those of you in a relationship WITHOUT kids, what makes you want to stay (esp if you were never close to anyone so intimacy is not your “normal”)?

I understand children will create a bond -esp bc the relationship it becomes greater than the two individuals - so we will leave that off the table. I understand as well in beginning the attraction closeness and...

VIVANT

Guru Age: 28

Ladies, help! my boyfriend is entertaining other females from his home town & im not sure what I should do?

So... my boyfriend (finally) moves to my state for work back in November. We recently just started dating. I went through his phone & seen where abunch of females from his home town were hitting him up & he was hitting...

Osmalls

Xper 3 Age: 34

Why didn’t he just say yes or no?

I broke up with my ex boyfriend two months ago. We have had friendly conversations since then. We both agree that we do not want to get back together now. He said maybe in the future we will get back together. I told him...

Anonymous

(30-35)