How to win my ex baxk?

[Flyawaywithme]

Two weeks ago, my ex broke up with me. He broke up with me because he assumed something that wasn’t true and kind of just snapped. In the time that he’s broken up with me, he’s gotten a promotion at work, he’s finally moved out of his house, and he’s met other people. He Says that everything is going right in his life and he thinks it’s because he doesn’t have to deal with me anymore. I am devastated. Mainly because I was treated so badly in the relationship, why am I the one who’s hurting? (A lot of people have mentioned that it was a beautiful nation ship and that he was a narcissist.) I would do anything to have him back. I text him every day to remind him I still love him. I have tried multiple times to try to see him but obviously he moved so I have nowhere that I could show up to. I call and leave him a voicemail so that he could just hear my voice hoping that’ll work. But nothing seems to work, it seems to just annoy him more. Everyone tells me that I should just MoveOn because I will see the light at the end of the tunnel and I’ll see that my relationship wasn’t so great to begin with, but I can’t seem to see that. The only thing I seem to focus on is how deadly I miss Him. What would some advice from those of you who have hated their ex but now respects them. Should I leave him alone for a while and hope that he will calm down. Should I send edible arrangements to his house so that he knows I still care. Should I continue to text him every day and remind him I love him. What can I do to win him back. He wants nothing to do with me. I can’t be any more clear than that. But the thought of him not coming around anymore scares me to death

[KitKnickKat]

Your ex has made it clear several times that he doesn’t want anything to do with you. I know it’s crappy, but he even told you that he feels better off without you in his life… Doesn’t that make you feel like garbage? Why would you want to be with someone that talks to you like that? I know it’s hard, and I know you probably hate when people say it but there are better people out there. You could probably find someone that’s almost exactly like your ex if you look hard enough, another version of him but someone that treats you better. Trust me I’ve been there but trying and trying just makes you feel worse, moving on actually makes you feel better sooner than you think.


Now I’m going to flip my opinion (LOL), as I am someone who got back together with their ex. We were together for a year and then he broke up with me because I couldn’t give him space and I was making him unhappy. I was upset with him too so I was okay with the break up for a bit, but a couple months went by and I realized I still loved him. So, I reached out to him after leaving him alone for a few months and of course we met other people during that time, but we decided to try again. I also proved to him that I changed and he saw I did. But I had to give him time and I needed time as well. So as a last resort, If you really don’t wanna give up then I would wait a few months and try to live your own life. At that point you can think deeply if you really wanna get back together with him. Then you can message him again. But for now I would leave them alone, he needs a chance to miss you.

[Fairyluna]

Girl, please, think of yourself first! If he did that to you he is not a good person and clearly doesn't deserve you. I know the wound is fresh and you will take time to heal, but focus on yourself for the moment. Find a new hobbie, go shopping, do something that makes YOU happy. The bad memories and bad moments will go away, and soon you won't even feel like he meant something to you, you will be free.
You don't need him to be happy, there is plenty of fish in the sea, and only time will tell who you really should be with. Wishing you the best X

[Meatunnel69]

You just gotta deal with the gut wrenching loneliness and endless sorrow like a champ. One advantage a girl has is that men are so horny they get a craving for old game meat and will often wax nostalgic about your pussy and maybe hit you up for it down the line but you cannot turn into the stalker you’ve become you need to go cold turkey and wait for him to maybe change his mind.

[RHK36]

Didn't read all that. The question says enough. You don't, just move on. Stop watching or reading romantic comedies. Focus on improving yourself and hopefully you'll meet the right person for you.

[chrissykerdock]

invite him over for a reason? wear a minidress heels make up and be sure to give him blowjobs... that would get him to change his mind... he has a history with you and if you did that for him he'd surely take you back.

[wilcross]

Based on what you said in this post, you are doing all the wrong things to get him back.

[Anonymous]

did you promise him blowjobs and anal for the rest of his life? cause that usually works

[asshole_]

You don't want to

Why do you want a fucking ex

[In_Trance]

stop it... move on