Ladies, help! my boyfriend is entertaining other females from his home town & im not sure what I should do?

[Osmalls]

So... my boyfriend (finally) moves to my state for work back in November. We recently just started dating. I went through his phone & seen where abunch of females from his home town were hitting him up & he was hitting some of them up as well. Nothing toooo serious. He asked one girl if she wanted to kick it tho when he came back to town. I’ve asked my friends & they all say to leave it alone until I find something more hardcore. What would you do? I wanted to spaz out on him buttt I want this relationship to work. He does keep his phone notifications turned off. He will turn his phone to where I can’t see it when he’s on it. We live together & he has Verizon. Which does not work where we are at so he doesn’t get any service but here & there when we are home. When we go out or we are at work, he’s constantly on it. He hasn’t pushed for me to get internet so he would have service or anything like that. I believe he is a good guy buttt why is he hitting up females from back home? He def wouldn’t like it if I was entertaining dudes. I need some advice. Should I make him go through his phone one day & ask who they all are? I mean, he has every single app you can think of. WhatsApp, FaceTime, Snapchat, Fb, IG. I’ve asked him before who some of them are & he always says it’s his cousin. Like I said I want this to work, I want to trust him because he lives here now & doesn’t know anyone but he just does scandalous shit sometimes that makes me wonder if I’m just wasting my time. Besides that tho, he’s a great boyfriend. We hardly ever argue. He likes taking me out, he spoils me. Everything I could ask for. Thanks!!!

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+1 y

Goodness, y’all are savage on this app! But thanks for telling it how it is! & most of y’all that are calling me easy & what not are just ignorant. Smh.

[OlderAndWiser]

Everything you could ask for? So you don't ask for loyalty?

Okay, YOU want it to work. Does HE want it to work? No. Can you him change so he is a good boyfriend? No. Are you wasting your time? Yes. Is he using you? Yes. Are you going to get hurt? Yes. Are you going to feel like a fool when it is over? Yes. B is this the guy you should marry? Not in a million years.

What else do you need to know?

[Osmalls]

Who said I don’t ask for loyalty? I’m confused.

[OlderAndWiser]

He's talking to other women to arrange sexual encounters and you tolerate his sorry ass. Despite what you say, you are not demanding loyalty.

[Anonymous]

You went through his phone...
You will be single soon enough.

[Osmalls]

Can’t tell me you’ve never went through someone shit. Smh. Ignorant.

[Opinion Owner]

I can tell you, because I never have. I don't date someone I don't trust.

[Osmalls]

Well good for you. Not everyone is as perfect as you. 🤣🤦🏼‍♀️🤣

[Opinion Owner]

You can mock all you want, you are insecure and have no trust... you will always be in bad relationships.

[Anonymous]

I think he's not serious having relationship with you. most guys are not serious when at young age.. sigh. they will get serious when they has turn old and lonely

[Osmalls]

He’s 30. I’m 28. We live together. It’s pretty serious. I just don’t understand why a guy thinks it’s okay for him to have female friends but not the other way around. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Osmalls]

But you’re right, we’re getting old. It’s time for me to settle down.

[Opinion Owner]

yes. time to settle down

[Anonymous]

This will NEVER work out so let that go. Dump him and move on. You’re 100% wasting your time and emotion on this one.

[Osmalls]

Why do yo say that? I need advice & reasons. Explain!!