So... my boyfriend (finally) moves to my state for work back in November. We recently just started dating. I went through his phone & seen where abunch of females from his home town were hitting him up & he was hitting some of them up as well. Nothing toooo serious. He asked one girl if she wanted to kick it tho when he came back to town. I’ve asked my friends & they all say to leave it alone until I find something more hardcore. What would you do? I wanted to spaz out on him buttt I want this relationship to work. He does keep his phone notifications turned off. He will turn his phone to where I can’t see it when he’s on it. We live together & he has Verizon. Which does not work where we are at so he doesn’t get any service but here & there when we are home. When we go out or we are at work, he’s constantly on it. He hasn’t pushed for me to get internet so he would have service or anything like that. I believe he is a good guy buttt why is he hitting up females from back home? He def wouldn’t like it if I was entertaining dudes. I need some advice. Should I make him go through his phone one day & ask who they all are? I mean, he has every single app you can think of. WhatsApp, FaceTime, Snapchat, Fb, IG. I’ve asked him before who some of them are & he always says it’s his cousin. Like I said I want this to work, I want to trust him because he lives here now & doesn’t know anyone but he just does scandalous shit sometimes that makes me wonder if I’m just wasting my time. Besides that tho, he’s a great boyfriend. We hardly ever argue. He likes taking me out, he spoils me. Everything I could ask for. Thanks!!!
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Goodness, y’all are savage on this app! But thanks for telling it how it is! & most of y’all that are calling me easy & what not are just ignorant. Smh.
