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I have no idea what's going on with my friend of 3.5 years but it seems like he doesn't want to be friends anymore and is cutting me out of his life. Starting last summer he messaged my for hours a day and we got to know everything about each other. Then he switched to texting me constantly, then snapchatting.

We're on a five day school break now and I told him to snap me and he's made no effort to contact me, although he said he would.

I'm not going to chase him. It's become obvious that I'm not on his radar anymore, so I just want to know how to deal with seeing him every day in class when we used to be joined at the hip, jinxing each other all the time because we'd say the same thing, sharing food, meaningful looks and inside jokes, all the friend stuff that's over now.

The class we have together is really small and we sit next to each other at a table. If I move seats it's going to create drama because everyone will want to know why, so I'm kind of stuck sitting next to him an hour a day for six more months. This is going to get even more awkward.

I like to be honest with people I care for and not act fake nice to their face and hate them behind their back, but that's how he is. I really don't see a point in having it out with him about why he doesn't like me anymore. It would just look crazy or desperate. You can't make someone like you, so I just have to accept that I did something to him or he just found a better friend. I've asked him before if he wanted to be real or fake friends, because I'm real or nothing, and he assured me we were real friends. But I would have contacted my real friend on a holiday to see what they were up to.

I just don't get how he can say I'm his other favorite person in the world, besides his gf, and suddenly not want to talk to me in or out of school. His gf isn't at our school, so he would hang out with me whenever he had down time, now I have to ask to see him and he doesn't always come.

we have an amazing time together, I have never felt this way about anyone else. He always looks at me, at my face, and smiles. compliments me on everything by saying things like "you really are so beautiful" to "you have to remember how smart you are." he asked my friends a lot about me. he's in a band and whatever so I feel like he feels like he needs to put up a front, a like "I can get whoever I want" front, even though i've met all of his close friends. we stopped seeing each other for a while, but he really wanted to see me again so I said ok and it was great, up until I wanted to know where I stand. it was only a month in, but I was worried because I don't really see him as often as I'd like to. He told me because he had only recently gotten out of the relationship with his high school sweetheart basically that he can't do anything serious, he feels like he needs to live out his youth, but he still obviously really wants to see me and told me he it's not that he can't see us in the future or not love me, but he feels his relationship controlled his life for so long and his friends told me it "fucked him up." I don't really know what to do because he is so great to me and we have such a good time despite these things, but I feel myself getting worried/desperate when I don't here from him after a few days and I hate that. I haven't asked him to call more so maybe I should, but I don't want to act needy and push him away. he is always holding on to me in some way wherever we are, and only have sex in a very kind of slow passionate way lately... and he asks to make sure I feel like doing it which I find really polite. we are obviously very attracted to each other. Obviously I don't know what to do, any advice?