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Should I let him move back in?

I'll try to keep this short. I was dating my ex for just over two years, living with him for 8 months of that. The reason he moved in was because he was running out of money and his mom had to move back in with him. I was...
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Help, marriage and family scares me so much!?

After 2 serious relationships (each longer than 3 years) without great concerns about future, I met a boy recently and he became my boyfriend. This time, I did start to plan a future in my head with him and started taking...
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Why hasn't he asked me to be his girlfriend or anything?

I've been hanging out with this guy for about a month. He's told me several times that he likes me and we hang out almost every day but we haven't talked about what our relationship is. We've hooked up already so I know...
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Break it off or get over my fears?

So I am in a situation I am sure many people on here were in before. You are with a guy/girl, everything is great, but the moment things start getting a bit more serious, you get paranoid and terrified of the future. So...
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I'm a fearful avoidant. Haven't been in a relationship since I was 17

i had a really awful childhood and ever since then I've been afraid of people. I have a series of really intense friendships where I end up f***ing them up. I also can't stick with jobs or really anything. i can't commit...
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Depression issues. Please help!!

Let me start of by saying that this is more of a confession than anything. Truth is, I rarely know anything. I rarely talk to girls and tell people how easy it is to get gfs when I haven't had one is years. Haven't even...
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Is there any chance for us?

So I've known this guy for 3 and a half years, saw him on a night out in June and have been sleeping with him ever since. We've been on a couple of dates too and we often hang out and get drunk. I've definitely fallen for...
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Friend zoned for now or forever?

I've liked this guy at my job since last year when I started. A few months working there I never talked to him because I'm shy. After a while he started talking to me and I started talking to him. We really started to...
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Is he really afraid of commitment or does he really love me and wants to be with me?

This is my first relationship and I am in need of a little assistance. My boyfriend and I hav been dating for almost 2 months and we first met in school. We clicked the first moment we saw each other and practically have...
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Have I missed the signs of an emotionally unavailable man on the rebound or is he just a player

Hi there. So I met a really nice guy on a dating site. We went for coffee and then a number of dates. We seemed to be very comfortable with each other and the chemistry was really great. We decided to start dating...
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Just broke things off. Why don't I feel any better :(

We weren't even in a committed relationship. He was afraid, no TERRIFIED, of commitment because he was afraid of getting hurt. Every time he got close to me, he'd pull back and I kept getting hurt over and over. The pain...
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I don't know what to do, please help?

My girlfriend wants to commit suicide. I've begged and begged her to please stay, that I'll try to make her life better. Everyone in her family is mean to her. She gets physicaly and verbally abused. She cuts. And I don't...
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Is it worth it to be just friends with her? No contact, or what?

It all started when I felt like my friends were not really friends of mine. The two guys I always hung out with just stopped texting me like normal, and ignored me when I did try to talk to them. Needless to say I started...
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Afraid of opening up perhaps?

I met someone who I was interested in. She gave me her number, and I asked her to dinner, after having a hilarious debate on what restaurant had the best Italian food. So we went out and dinner went well. She texted me...
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Diaper buddy tells me he has aways had a crush on me, about to see him in a couple of days HELP!

He told me today that he had always had a crush on me, I will never feel the same way. I feel like a cold hearted bitch for doing this to him. I have to let him now that I'll never feel the same way, I will never feel...
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Serious help for tomorrow!

LONG LONG STORY SHORT So how this all started out was that junior year of high school me and this girl were friends. I fell head over heals for her, but because I treated her like a friend (girls you get what I'm saying)...
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I don't know if I should wait, or go.

I have known this guy for about 3 years now. We have never really dated, hooked up but it's never been anything. I moved away for a year and in that time we both dated other people. When I moved back home we reconnected....
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Bf and I are often apart. Are we doomed until we move in together?

My boyfriend and I are almost long-distance. I'm dissatisfied with the amount of time we spend together but we can't really increase it because of the distance, work load at school and family obligations. The thing is, my...
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He doesn't want to lose me 'at all'. What does he mean?

I don't get why my boyfriend tells me this. He told me he's afraid that I might like another guy later on in the relationship because I'm 'pretty' and 'beautiful'. He's 'serious' about committing to me. Doesn't he trust me?
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Why do I want to kill myself every time something bad happens to me?

Every time something bad happens to me, I consider killing myself. It didn't bother that much until I finally put a gun to my head. After a few minutes I calm down and think "Why on earth would I kill myself?!" and forget...
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