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I went to my elder sisiter's house yesterday. She got married this year. There was a party there. My brother in law is 8 years elder to me and does not talk much with me or my younger sibling. Yesterday i was standing there talking with my sibling. It was a narrow passage to walk through.
Suddenly i felt someone's two fingers on my butt , and heard someone talking to a waiter in front of me. I then saw it was my brother in law 's fingers touching me there. He wanted to pass through that passage and was probably moving me out of his way and talking to the waiter so maybe mistakingly touched me there. But as he removed his hand he did not say " sorry" to me. Why did he do that? I am so creped out right now. I love my sister a lot and she had an arranged marriage. i dont want to create unnecessary troubles in her life.
Why did my bro in law do that? Is he a pervert? Because i do occassionally greet him with a smile and he misread it? I am disturbed right now. pls help

I know this may sound crazy coming from an American woman, but I think my life would have been way better if I had an arranged marraige. Why? Because the rules are laid out. You know that no matter what you and this person will respect each other and set goals together. When I work with this person there will be a benefit to me and our family.

Dating is hard and it sucks. I have dated men... built them up and helped them with their dreams. What did I get after their goals were reached? Nothing and here I am alone.

I would have wasted much less time, energy, and efforts if I had an arranged marriage.

(People have marriage all wrong these days. Marriage isn't about a fancy wedding. Marriage is about dedication, hard work, and respect. Marriage is something you have to work at everyday, like a business).