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Before you gathers launch into a rant about how a girl can't change a player, let me clarify. I don't like this guy at all, my only wish is to get him to leave me alone. I'm about to turn 16 and this knucklehead is 18.
So it all started when I was 14 years old talking with my friend. I turned to see him staring me deep into the eyes. I said hi but he didn't stop staring. 😶From then on he brushed against me, made himself stand out, stand close to me, stare into my eyes from across the room... He and his friends went to my mom and asked where I was going to school, what classes I was taking...😾I was annoyed by this so I blushed and smiled at him to leave me alone. in less than a month he was back at it. I'm not the only girl who doesn't give a damn about him, and he gives them peace. How can I get through his thick head?

So my little bro (18yrs) has had huge crush on this girl (let's call her girl "A") since 7th grade and never dated a chick but everytime she reached out to him in a romantic way (cause she likes him too n has since around that time and has told him so) he would act only in a friend way towards her but she knew he liked her... He's not shy around other girls just to her to (WHEN it comes to flirting he can talk to her in friendly non romantic way) which is understandable. he pretty outgoing to be honest and class clown too!! But here's the kicker... he asked another girl (let's call her girl "b") to prom and has been causal with her since then and has no desire to date girl B even tho she would like to be with him. He even told me that he loves girl A and that girl A loves him too and they have express this to each other when she was heart broken over the prom situation he says he reassured girl A that is feelings haven't changed for her and him and girl "B" aren't serious but it's HIM and ONLY HIM who continues to be causal with other people despite the love that my brother and girl A have... can you guys give me clarity in this is it just imauraity or what? Like girl B was threatened by girl A she went on my bros fb and blocked girl A ( I don't know why he would let her do this) this make no sense and Ik all of this is true causes he's shown me physical proof... my little bro isn't a player he such a sweet kid who has good intentions tbh (not only that but we live in a small town so I he was being a little man whore I would know lmfao) what do you guys think is going on in his head (cause he doesn't wanna talk about it with me) that makes him do this? I mean this causal relationship that he has with girl "b" isn't even anything like they don't even kiss (and girl "b" has had a boyfriend before so it's prob him that won't kiss her or something idk) I'm just concerned about my little brother... can you blame me? If u need more info I can update the post just comment lmk

- A reformed player claiming he has change and thinks he deserves either a woman that had low past or is a virgin. He's still into slut shaming women with his similar past that want to one day settle down too.

The mentality of a player type like him:
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/dating/q1587364-do-you-think-a-former-player-deserves-to-be-with-a-girl-who-has-high

- A certain woman that is very experienced, knows the dating world so well and gets a boyfriend that's a very reserved, naive man (who can even be a virgin that all he wants is a gf) mainly with him for security purpose.

This is an example of a woman like this:
https://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/536688-i-m-getting-more-sexually-frustrated-thinking-proposing

This woman has been dating this guy for nearly a year, making him wait till marriage (guy is a 25 year-old virgin) when it's neither due to strong convictions and she's very experienced and many posters are able to see he's getting used.

Interesting how this type of hypocrisy regarding someone's past... certain women do it too but in a more subtle manner.

I was having a debate with a friend and she reckons if a guy is a player type, who switches from girl to girl (very flirty behaviour) then one day an accident happens and he knocks up a girl, won't he realise that he has a kid now and he may change cause of the kid. I personally didn't agree. What do you guys think?

I changed jobs a few months ago and at the new workplace I met a gorgeous guy. He is 28 years old and he is incredibly good looking (the "spends 2 hours/day at the gym kind"), very masculine and dominant, he is super smart, also the team leader of the engineers team, he has an expensive car - the kind of guy that women fight over (our colleagues joke about it saying he is a player).

On the other hand, I am 29 years old, I'm slim and good looking but definitely not like the hot and gorgeous toned up princesses he LIKES on Social media. I consider myself rather smart than beautiful, even though I am feminine. On a scale from 1 to 10, I'd give myself a 7 and this guy a 9.

Normally, I wouldn't think this type of guy would look at a girl like me

We don't interact much. But recently I hurt my leg on a team building and the next day he showed up at my desk with pain medicine. I was surprised, and he told me he had constant problems with his knees and said I should ask for more medicine if I kept hurting. Then I started noticing little gestures like taking my defense in the reunions (2 times the same day) when he usually is combative and argumentative with other colleagues, even girls. I also noticed that his tone of voice visibly softness up when he talks to me, he smiles, but while talking to other colleagues, he is loud and sometimes a bit aggressive.

: when a colleague had a terrible idea during a meeting, he responded with "you keep on proposing that even though you know it never works!" When I had a bad idea, he said "I'm not saying your idea isn't good, but did you think of X and Y?"

Do you think it would be possible for him to like me, or am I reading too much in his nice protective behavior? Maybe he likes me as a collea