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Right, this post is actually inspired by a post that @Kaneki made about someone not knowing that he didn't like them, like him, I have a similar issue and it is proving difficult to fix, please consider before suggesting methods that could hurt the other person.

There is a guy I am fiends with, for easier reading I will use names.
Andrew is the guy I am talking about and we have known each other for a long time, he has had a lot of girlfriends and always introduces them to me as well, after awhile he got into a relationship with a girl called Hannah. The relationship lasted for a while but later on it stopped.

Not long after the relationship, Hannah would message me frequently on social media and talk to me, asking if Andrew missed her, if he talks about her, what she should do as she still has feelings for him..

But things have gotten worse this year as now she messages me saying stuff like-
"Jack, you're the only one I can come to for this kind of stuff"
"You honestly are the kindest guy I know"
And others but I don't want to put loads up, but thing is, I don't want her to get the wrong idea, I find talking with her very difficult and that's because she always talks about her relationship with Andrew and will always say how I was super supportive during and after the relationship.

I don't want to be friends because it feels awkward and her personality is so different from mine that we have nothing in common and also, because she is my friends ex, it feels weird talking so casually with her :/

So when she talks to me as though she has known me all my life, it feels off and I don't know how to deal with it.

Anime on the options:
A= Mirai Nikki
B= Golden Time
C= Tanaka kun wa itsumo kedaruge
D= My little monster

1. You're an idiot if you expect a woman to be a virgin or even remotely virginal, you will more then likely be stuck with someone's sloppy seconds.

2. If you're lucky, you can go 6 months before she decides to cheat on you for the most petty of reasons

3. Your Payroll and Your Dick determines your Value, your personality literally means jack shit.

4. She holds all the cards in the relationship. If she says jump, you ask how high.

5. She decides when it's time to have sex. If you even remotely pressure her or push her to sex it's sexual harassment.

6. She doesn't have to do anything and has no obligation to stay. Everything you do is to please her and If she finds something she thinks is better then she has every right to dump you without a second thought even if you did everything she wanted.

7. If she cheats on you, you weren't giving her enough attention. If you cheat on her, you are a horrible unfaithful human being.

8. If she dumps you its all your fault. it's always your fault. The woman is completely annulled of any responsibility should a relationship go sour.

9. The relationship isn't Girlfriend and Boyfriend. It's Master and Slave respectively.

Remember all that and you MIGHT have a semi-decent relationship. At least until she gets bored.