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Imagine your gf/bf broke up with you and wanted to be friends. If you want to get them back as a lover, they say there is a rule you should follow after the breakup. It's called no contact rule which means you should not text or call them for a period of time so they can miss you and the memories you had together and also they will see what it's like to live without you. No contact rule is an option. The second one is to keep talking to them so they don't forget about you and there is a chance you still can get their attraction with the way you talk. What do you think and which one would you choose? And also when do you think no contact rule should end?