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Getting over an ex from 5 years ago?

So I broke up with my ex boyfriend about 5 years ago. We were only together for around a year, but he had a pretty bad temper and was very controlling. Since then I've been with my current boyfriend nearly 3 years, but my...

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Dating

Guys, What do I do? My boyfriend of 5 months (officially) has a crazy girl who won't ex leave us alone. At my breaking point?

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From the beginning; for a year he saw this girl that he worked with in a friends with benefits arrangement. He told her several times he wasn't interested in a relationship with her

From the beginning; for a year he saw this girl that he worked with in a friends with benefits arrangement. He told her several times he wasn't interested in a relationship with her yet she continued to always come over to his house uninvited, cook for him, clean etc. so he ended it but she didn't believe him and became worse. After he tried ending it she befriended all his friends and his family without asking him and got her best friend- which is one of the guys his brother is close to, to move on with them (he lives with his brother) so she could have an excuse to always be over. She literally forced herself into his life.

Now he fully cutt her off last year and started talking to me. Taking me on dates etc. I who had just met him one night at a bar had no idea who she was or anything for the first 7 months of seeing each other casually. He started by befriending me. The whole time, this girl who I had never met was calling him 24/7 telling him that I was using him and I was seeing another guy who was in a relationship and so many awful things about me to him while he was still getting to know me. On the side she was spreading rumors about me to our mutual friends saying I stole her boyfriend and stalking me actively on all my social media writing things about me.

I found out about this 6 months ago after being told by several people various rumors they heard about me slitting around and him paying all my expenses (I'm still a virgin and pay everything myself). So I confronted him because she was also at that point saying they are in love and he was cheating.. Also not true.

This week she took to social media to talk shit about me. He confronted her and she said she would stop, only to resume a minute later now slamming him too. I told him to cutt her off because I am at my limit, block her number etc if he wanted to stay with me. And he did telling her to contact someone else if it was for work.

Now she is saying on social media I used witchcraft to steal him. LOL

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Feelings for a man who had a secret child?

I've been on-off with this guy two years. Were best friends and i did have feelings for him. Now they're not as strong but when I see him I get this big rush of emotions and am glad to see him but don't know if that's...

tantrum88

Xper 4 Age: 38

Relationships

Her male 'friends', sometimes they are never just friends

This was a while back, a long while back and happened to a friend. I hope everyone can learn from this. I hope it has the impact it had on me, on you and ever since I have changed a lot with regards to my friends of the...

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Girl's Behavior

Am I right that she is over reacting?

I am now in a relationship with my best friends ex husband. i was in an unhappy marriage and left my husband for him. my best friend hates me now she said that i have betrayed her and her children and says that i am...

Anonymous

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Relationships

Whats going on? Does he like me?

Okay, so I started a new job a little over a month ago, small company, only 8 people in the office, right off the bat my co worker was asking about me and my interests as was the other older guy who works across from me....

Anonymous

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Relationships

I like a girl who is still not over her ex-boyfriend?

Over the past few months I've developed feelings for a girl I’ve met and been friends with for a year or so. I've never had feelings for a girl like this in a very long time and I would really like to be in a relationship...

Ankind

Xper 4 Age: 35

Flirting

girls, i have feelings for a girl... i need advice?

I've come to know this girl, she is a few years older than me but we get on very well. She recently moved to a nearby town and we've become friends. The thing is, over the past few months I've developed feelings for her....

Anonymous

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Break Up & Divorce

Do guys realize when they've messed up?

So I've been with a guy for over 4 months now. one day he told me to ring his friend off his phone so I did. As I clicked on his contacts... A name and number came up of a girl then suddenly disappeared. Anyway as I asked...

Anonymous

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Dating

How to win an ex back after being a cold fish?

So.. I have good pickup skills and got a girl I was crazy about.. she was chasing me everything was good. parents didn't approve and we started seeing each other anyways. Made plans to move out. She was getting hot and...

Anonymous

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Break Up & Divorce

Should I take her back?

Here is the situation, i use to date this girl 6 months ago, and we broke up because she cheating on me. What happened was that i was in love with her for about a year before we started going out, the reason why it took...

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Here is the situation, i use to date this girl 6 months ago, and we broke up because she cheating on me. What happened was that i was in love with her for about a year before we

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They don't have feelings - Move On!

I was just in a hellish situation. This guy had feelings for me but I didn't. He was a great friend so I didn't want to cut him off, but he took no message. Even when I said "I just don't have feelings" and "I'm not ready...

babyqurllll

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Guys, bfs ex gfs saved games, profiles, and accounts still on his computers and game systems?

So my boyfriend is quite a gamer and uses his electronics a lot. He usually tries to get me to play video games with him he likes or a game by myself. Every single time we play or use one of his gaming systems or...

Anonymous

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Break Up & Divorce

Is this a dumb reason why we broke up?

My ex and I broke up over a month ago because one day he ignored me and I ignored him right back (which was wrong but I'm petty) and later that night he sent me a text saying "so are we done or not because I really don't...

laurasolovely

Xper 4 Age: 27

Relationships

Friends with benefits? Will it lead anywhere?

He is 41 and I'm 32. Been involved with him 3 months. He split from ex 5 months ago...said he getting over ex but not ready for relationship. He has since moved into his own place. I like him so much and tried to cut...

figureit

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Break Up & Divorce

Ex-Girlfriends: The Ghost of Girlfriends' Past Part 2

Last time I wrote about "The Psycho", "The Stepford Girlfriend", and "The Now-BFF" exes. This is the second part: THE PUBERTY-DRIVEN FIRST LOVE GOOD TIMES: The awkward first fluch of foreign hormones (and increasingly...

Japan02

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Dating a girl and feeling uncertain about the relationship? Not sure what is best?

I am 21 (JR in college) and been dating an 18 (FR in college) for the past four months. We had an up and down period early on because I didn't want to go any further but we continued talking and she's really grown on me....

Anonymous

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Break Up & Divorce

After a 14 year marriage, I found out that my wife was having an affair with my best friend! How do I go about starting over?

So my wife and I have been together since we were 14 (19years total) she's literally the only serious relationship that I've ever had! My best friend, or I'll call him my ex best friend actually, I've known him since we...

LikesPlayingDoctor

Xper 4 Age: 45

Break Up & Divorce

Could my ex boyfriend give me another chance, if he still loves me, and sees that I'm serious about changing?

We dated for two years and had an amazing relationship. We broke up a little over a month ago, I was really bad about the NC thing at first but it's been about two weeks since the last time I contacted him. We spent...

Anonymous

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Relationships

On the other side: An emotional cheater's perspective

“ If you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second ." - Johnny Depp It's easy to blame the cheater. I was cheated on two...

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