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I'm not asking to go on a date but based on my description, if you could, would you go on a date with me? Boys just don't seem interested and I wonder if I'm just not their type or not anybody's type.

Physical:
- slightly blond going dirty blond, 5' 5", 140 lbs.
- hourglass, D cup, and size 9 curvy jeans.
- athletic build but curvy meant for basketball and softball
-tans easily

Personality:
- love to laugh
- respect others
- easy-going
- listens to your problems
- loyal and true to my friends
- glare at those who are being annoying or rude
- somewhat impatient, can be loud, and a chatterbox (when I want to be)

And just looking for a yes/no and an explanation why.

to me, Im not pretty, just average, slim, small boobs, quite big butt, I wore modest clothes and virgin. most women hates me with my face and my body. I don't understand that. guys giving hint to wait until I approach them. in fact I'm extremely shy. I unable to look at guy's face much and even talk to them. which result made me being single and never had any boyfriend yet. when I made some guy friends, they would try to be since they aren't single. and people around would assume that I'm dating with my male friends. this would make awkward and they started to stopped talking to me when people did this to me. I'm straight. I feel sad for being lonely. and I ever sext with some guys a few time. especially when I have problems.

at home, mom and I are completely different. when she was young, she was a wild woman. guys kept running into her. so having a daughter like made her and stressed out because I'm single. she often insult me for being single. and keep saying that I should not scream, yell, angry at my brothers. while my brothers kept being rude to me and never wanted to do chores. my parents and my siblings making me into a maid. today's when I woke up late and I asked my brother to clean the bed, my mom kept backing him up, by saying he did some chores and and studying right now. in fact he was gaming. when I told her all that, she just doesn't believe what I say and slapped me many times. she told me that I should not be rude. and insulting me while saying that no man would like me for being like this.

I'm the only daughter in this family. my aunt kept saying that my family should treat me better. but why my own family doing this to me?

I've had two pastors who would tell me I was wrong over and over when I shared my views on the bible at church - one guy did it more harshly when I came up with a good idea - no only did he tell me I was wrong but he would do it in a very rude way just like he wanted to hurt my feelings and punish me for being different - later when I left the church - the other pastor asked me where I was half a year later and I told him I no longer attended that church - he didn't say a single thing like "we miss you" or "we hope you come back." It was like he was glad I left his church. Jesus got kicked out by the religious leaders when he was on earth and he had to found a separate religious congregation for those outside the regular synagogue.

So this guy i've been kind of seeing recently is the type to say whats on his mind and doesn't hold back. He said he kind of has different "personalities" with peoples he is around. For example, at work he says whats on his mind and doesn't hold back and is rude but friendly to his co workers. With his parents he's more proper/polite. I told him that he's sweet and complimenting him and he said "it's because its you". He said that he is more careful around me and what he says so he doesn't hurt my feelings.