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I m around 5'5 tall, 120 pounds, I've got some really nice clothes and high heels (I work as a designer for a haute couture brand), I also like boxing and martial arts, most of my friends are guys, both my guy friends and girl friends think I 've got amazing personality and high EQ. But since I' m a bit chubby and I've got a round chubby face, 17 years in my life have passed and never had a date.
Last year I had a crush on a cute guy, he's cute looking and friendly, he also had a crush on me, but he never ask me out for date because he's more of a player, always dating tall slim girls. All my friends suggest me to lose weight and be more femine, some of them were straight forward and even told me I'm ugly compare to the popular girls he's dating, he'ill probably feel ashame for dating me. It sounds mean but guess it's the truth.
Seriously, is body shape more important than personality?

This guy at my job is super skinny, he looks like he weighs 120lbs and I weigh 90lbs more, do the math. Anyway I've been heavy since i was 10 so I'm used to hearing i should lose weight and I'm fat and shit. I'm just asking is it possible that a skinny guy can like a big girl?
I know he likes me because we talk everyday, eat together at work, he pokes me, he likes to hang out with me, he laughs at my jokes even when they're not funny and my cousin works with him and he told me he likes me. I kinda find hard to believe anyway.

So a few years ago the kids in my middle school told me I was weird I was fat, disgusting and ugly. And said I did drugs, or would just walk up to me just to say. Eww your face is disgusting lose weight! I am banned from my middle school because the kids there have said so much crazy stuff about me that the school decided to just block me from it since I'm now I'm in high school. People have said they'd like to fight me and push me off cliffs/ kill me because I was a ugly bitch. ( this is what guys have told me) they even went as far as stalking me. Or tried to get other girls to beat my head in. ( guys and girls) i could never leave my stuff around the school because this girl called me fat I turn around and see food open and spilled all inside my bag. I go to a high school not far from the school people bullied me at. But people don't treat me like this anymore. People may say bad things about me behind my back but I'm not treated like how I used to. Suddenly people are saying I'm pretty and I was asked out on a date on my 2nd day in high school. Mind you I live near my old middle school and the kids from my old middle school go to my high school. But they aren't giving me issues and are suddenly nice to me. Even the kids who used to ignore me are now talking to me. It's basically people are not mean to me as much and I am no longer bullied. But I don't want to think it's because I look better I tried to make up other theories. Maybe the kids have changed now that we are in high school. But I'm the same person I was in middle school. Do you think it's cuz I look better or is it because high school kids are just more mature? Fights and rumors still go around at my school but still what do you think?

I think men are a bit more picky when it comes to looks, i have always heard from men that they want a girl with big boobs, big butt, to be super curvy and to be hot and she can't be ugly or fat. I know that people have standards. I have always seen pretty girls with not good-looking guys and they love him for who he is. My dad told me that guys wouldn't be caught dead with ugly or fat girls. My dad said all women are ugly and need makeup and it's their job to stay hot. I'm always told that I'm very beautiful but if i lost weight i would be more hot. I've dated big guys and they weren't good looking but i was in love with them. I don't hate men or trying to talk down to them. There's women out there that want handsome men with Magic Mike bodies but most of them don't really care.