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Long story short I'm recently dealing with a girl who got flaky out of nowhere when SHE ASKED ME to hang out a few weeks ago (canceled twice at the last second) but she still tries to act all friendly when I see her like she did nothing wrong. We belong to the same training gym so unfortunately, I'm going to keep running into her.

I almost blew up on her when she did this, but I've been following Corey Wayne's principle's about staying cool and strong when women test guys. She wanted to get in a conversation when I met her in person after this happened, but I kept it real quick, small talk and walked away. Basically told her she wasn't worth my time without explicitly saying so.

This is VERY hard to do. I just wanted to tell her to beat it and I lost a ton of respect for her for blowing me off earlier. I've gone off on girls in the past who did this to me. While it's very satisfying to call them out on their bullshit, but that it's also game over if I ever want to get laid with them.

However, a girl can call out a guy if he's being a douche, he can apologize and say he'll make it up to her. SHE won't lose out in that scenario. He still might pay for a date to make up for it. But vice versa is never true.

I called up the friend who turned me on to him and he encouraged me to stay the course. But we both agreed about the double standard about how women purposely test guys and we are supposed to deal with it but vice versa isn't acceptable by our society.