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In regard to the title, I am only assuming they text a lot because although he has other people to text, I have been noticing that her name is popping up.

My boyfriend has a female friend who he’s always texting... literally. He is occupied with his phone to the point where I want to just yell at him out of frustration and jealousy.

They send memes, message on Facebook & DM's. He doesn’t hide it tho, he told me how they met and some things they talk about. I feel like they’re always texting and after doing some investigation, I think they’re new friends, not known each other for that long so I don’t understand how you can become attached when you’re new.

It’s safe to say I’m jealous and I don’t want to talk to him about it because it’s more of my own personal issue, i don’t want my paranoia and overthinking to get in the way and cause huge problems in case I’m simply overreacting.

Were in a serious and exclusive relationship so it’s not that he’s moving on from me. Heck, he introduces he as his fiancé sometimes when I’m not. My fear is he envelops feelings for her or vice versa with the amount of time they spend texting each other.

They have mutual friends so anytime there's an event, they're both there. And they were introduced by a mutual friend. I simply hate how they text because about a month ago, I saw her name on his phone but I didn’t think much of it, but lately everytime I see her name or I see him texting, I always assume it’s her and i dislike it. What I dislike more is when we’re at the gym (we’re gym rats) he’s always on his phone in between sets so obviously replying to his messages, possibly her messages and he’s told me a long time ago he doesn’t go on his phone a lot during workouts.

I dont think he’s realizing what he’s doing is bothering me or wrong because he does it Infront of me, and I don’t think he’s cheating, but I don’t get why he’s so occupied with her. I mean she’s at work right? But they seem to be able to text.

Everybody has their flaws , Its up to us when considering a serious mate to know what we can tolerate and handle from our loved ones as opposed to what can be real deal breakers. So my question here is for the guys.. personally which one is the better of both evils persay 😂,, what can you handle more and live with more
Female A:
She is the sweet mothering type , Very feminine and very vulnerable.. mothering by nature BUT has a constant track of you for reassurance... meaning , has to check your phone ,,, has to call you up ,,, has to know what you are doing ,, asks questions about other girls etc is a worrying mother type but romantic and has no problem with showing you how much she is crazy about you. Female B :
She is the independent type... She will never check your phone or ask to exchange passwords , she will never ask or demand for an explanation of things from you.. she lets you be and dosent insist on where you are going BUT.. she rarely shows any type of jealousy and she needs the same back... she dosent like being bothered and she HAS to have time for herself where she goes into her cave everynow and then... she might seem nonchalant at times because she's very much on the go and that might make her seem like she dosent express as much but she needs a nudge from you basically to show you her more romantic deeper side.

PS : both women do have enough time to spend with you to actually date. Both women are interested and want a relationship with you... Rationally speaking, without the emotional aspect... long term who do you see yourself being more inclined to?

Monogamy is not for everyone. it's a way to prevent dishonesty and cheating. But at same time there is always the jealousy and society judgments who sees it not normal way of life. So if you don't believe in monogamy could you ask your partner for an open relationship?