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He is my first boyfriend ever and we have dated a month only. List:We keep on arguing 3 times on text because i feel bad and empty because he shows no affection, he is not allowed to date, he refuses to even hold my hand, he is leaving to college soon, he doesn't try to hang out with me after school, he is going to a different country this summer, i feel hurt, i feel like he is distancing himself from me, texting me less and less, my parents tell me that this won't work out that i am just going to get really hurt , my eyes are swollen from crying last night because what my parents said is hitting me hard now, He is muslim and his family might not accept me, he hasn't changed just one armed hugs no holding hands no kiss, everything is so dry because he doesn't like pda he says he does that in private but he never tries, lastly, he told me that if i want to i should just leave twice. But he has been sweeter that any guy has ever been to me, he made me feel special, he sent me the sweetest messages so I don't know what to do

I completely cheated, I have had an emotional connection with a man over a year. Let’s call him bob. I tell my boyfriend that bob likes me and that bob wants me to leave him and be with him. My boyfriend could pretty much care less, he thinks bob is not an attractive person and that what we have is too strong.

But me and my boyfriend haven’t been great I tell my boyfriend I’m not happy I need more emotion from him and take me on a date etc. we never go out he loves to lay around at home and he is like a wall he stares at his phone and barely talks to me.

Bob on the other hand is flirty and sweet and he has plenty of emotions. I never gave bob a chance bc I had a boyfriend. So we would harmlessly flirt but not much else.

Me and my boyfriend have a fight and we take a break. Four days later I’m with bob he knows I’m on a break. One thing leads to another and I want to give everything to bob. I litteraly take my clothes off and go for it. I have wanted to always know what me and bob have.

What we had was pretty amazing it was natural like he had been my boyfriend for the past year.

So now what !!! I have a boyfriend who loves me but don’t fulfill my needs even after I beg and plead but I love him. Then bob a man I know so much about but don’t know what I have with him. He also is seeing 2 other girls.

Does bob think this is just a hook up or does he want more? In the past I would say he wants me but it’s been a long year. If I get back with my boyfriend will he even accept me if I tell him?

What the hell do I do?