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I think that it just makes me worry more and I don’t want to it also makes me a bit sad because I’m so tired of people saying that guys are cheaters on social media and all their stories. Even though I have these concerns from time to time I don’t want to even think about it not trusting people is exhausting and I’m with a sweet guy I want to trust him as much as possible despite my doubts. By the way my dad was a player back then which might affect his opinions he also tells me not to have sex with guys because they will get tired of me.

I didn’t have any close relationships growing up and I wasn’t affectionate with anyone since maybe age 7.

when I see people all lovey and hugging etc to me it is like what girlfriend/ boyfriend/ girlfriend/ girlfriend/ boyfriend/ boyfriend do...

how do you guys know the diff between platonic and sexual affection. Just wondering. What is the difference in feeling?

I think friendships involve a kind of a spark. There’s platonic chemistry. Once you add physical intimacy even non sexual- that sees real confusing to me. At that point how do you Know it’s not a crush?

Sone people will say sex is the difference but in my opinion sex is often done between people who don’t even Like each other- so that isn’t really a majorly defining aspect in my opinion..

To me it seems “ liking “ someone genuinely and having affection seems WAY more intimate to me than sex. Which people can even pay for. 🤷‍♂️

So I’m really wondering how do you know? Thank You ! 💗