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My cousin's husband (31 years old) had been flirting with me, saying things like 'I miss you', 'I love you, darling', 'I have so much attachment with you'... So, I had blocked him but he somehow got my number and asked me the reason behind blocking.
I: I had blocked you because you were flirting with me and I didn't want to make you cheat on your wife.
He: You are right. But I won't cheat on her. She knows me very well. You would die to love me, you would die to get f***ed by me. You won't find anyone like me. By the way, you shouldn't tell her that I talk to you.
Me: Oh, you are scared huh?
He: I am not. She would doubt on me.
Me: Of course, she has a right to know that her husband can be unfaithful to her. Flirting with someone else while being in a relationship or marriage is cheating. You don't know?
He: Having sex is cheating, everything else has no value. Think broad, you won't be happy in your marriage. You have grown up in a conservative family, that's why your mentality is like this.
Me: I would be happy in staying extremely loyal to him, my guy, to be honest!!
He: U would, but he wouldn't be happy with you. All people have done everything before marriage now a days. I have done everything before marriage.
Me: Not all people, and cheating is cheating in every format!
He: Whatever you say. I was angry on you because you weren't talking to me... Anyway, no worries. Going to bed, good nighty darling! 😉

I don't think he would think this broad if his wife was flirting around behind his back. I will certainly tell my cousin about this.

so I was married to an abusive husband, and I became really good friends with this guy, we later ended up admitting our feelings for each other and he told me I was absolutely gorgeous. we decided to just stay friends out of respect for my marriage and I tried to get my husband to sort out his anger, me and this guy stayed friends going for walks etc but never let our feelings get in the way, I tried helping him get a girlfriend, he always said he although he wasn't a vrigin, his next sex he wanted to be his wife ( he is a Christian) anyway forward on a couple of month after having my last straw with my husband we split up and he is out of my life. me and my friend on a walk one evening end up hugging lots and he kisses me head and I can feel we are going to kiss but it doesn't happens but he does say cute things like ' I'd be in a relationship with a woman that has come out of a marriage if I loved her' , then a couple of weeks later we get flirty over Snapchat and then I bump Into him whilst drunk, we start hugging and stuff but next thing he is kissing my neck and touching me he freaks out and steps back then goes back and kisses me and touches me again. when I get back home I ask him what would you do to me he says I'd kiss you. I then don't hear from him for two months, he avoids me in every way possible delete me off Facebook won't reply to my messages. I found out he has been doing coke and ectasy and he keeps trying to get this girl that he turned out when he was sober because ' I am just not attracted to her' (she kept asking him out) I don't get it because after we done our stuff I told him I'm ok with being a casual thing despite our feelings or just staying friends. but he completely ignored me, but then when he gets on his drugs he keeps trying to bed this girl. I know when he gets drunk/drugs he does say I need to bed ' a s*** t'. so why won't he do it with me? The other day we spent untill 5am talking to each other then he just went quiet again xx