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When we started dating, he was giving me money every month... like 500, 600, 700 euros. Taking me on trips and shopping. Even though I work. Now he gave me his card. I don't plan to use it. I told him it's stupid and makes me feel uncomfortable. He is planning a vacation for my birthday. It will also be one year since we started dating.

But he quit on the idea of buying a new car. He sold his old one and he told me he has to get used to public transportation cause it's cheap. He also sold a building and is starting to build a new one next year. Is he just investing all of his resources in that project or is he actually a bit poor? He only has one apartment and he is basically taking care of his parents. They have their own apartment and house but their income is very small. His bro doesn't have his own place, he lives at his girlfriend's now. I didn't know these things before. Is he telling me now cause I cost him too much?

I've been with him for 2 years. I've expressed multiple times during our relationship that I'd like presents from him. I don't expect loads, it could just be a small present, like a keyring or teddy bear just something that shows he recognises that's what I like and thinks about me. He sent me a present once on my first birthday after I'd asked him many times. My last birthday I asked him for a present politely before my birthday, and he didn't get me one.
Don't get me wrong I don't want his money or anything. Just him to treat me with something little on my birthday and valentines day? That really is all I've asked him for and he doesn't do it. Yesterday I got angry at him for it. Maybe I shouldn't have. After I've asked him 3 times for a present , he says he has an idea with his friend. This made me angry, because I felt like he'd just say it and not actually do it, and because i'd had to have asked so many times to get to that point.
he also told me he buys presents for his friend, who lives abroad, to give to his girlfriend who lives near my boyfriend.
I don't know if I should go back and apologise. But this really really upsets me. I don't expect a lot, and he's not bad off, he's just been on holiday.