Search Results: don''t want to lead her on

Having a huge problem with my bf, regarding physicality in our relationship, I need input from both sides. What to do or think?

My bf and i have been together for almost two months. We obviously like each other a lot. I've met his family and he's met mines. We always spend time together. I'm usually the one whose like i want to wait till marriage...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

New work, New girl?

Hi so this is the situation, I've recently started a new job at a cafe and there's this girl lets call her Mkenna who works at a shop close by and sometimes comes in at lunch. I dont know her well enough to be crushing...

whitewolf

Xper 7 Age: 35

Hi so this is the situation, I've recently started a new job at a cafe and there's this girl lets call her Mkenna who works at a shop close by and sometimes comes in at lunch. I dont

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Dating

Do girls ever flake on you to test you?

So I've been on two dates with this girl, both gone great, lots of touching eye contact, laughing and just a ton of signs of interest as well as making out with her on both occasions. Since day one she's never been the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I have never dated or been in a relationship, but I have already given up on the whole thing? help?

sometimes i feel like i have given up on dating and guys, but the problem is that i haven't really done it at all, never seriously dated or been in a relationship. I have gone on dates and i have had guy interested, and i...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Whats her feelings?

I like her and want to be friends.we live in Canada and we are from iraq, along with her 2 best friends. im too shy to talk to her in school and she's a shy type.so i messeged her before 2 months(iv never ever said hi in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I like her and want to be friends.we live in Canada and we are from iraq, along with her 2 best friends. im too shy to talk to her in school and she's a shy type.so i messeged her

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Break Up & Divorce

Guys, i'm recently divorced 6 months. Now I'm ready to meet people and have fun? Is he into me?

I was married for 12 years, i dont know anything about a mans behavior. Around the same time as my divorce being finalized I met a guy at a job site I was on for 4 months. I found him interesting to start off but I didn't...

classychic34

Xper 4 Age: 45

Relationships

Does she care to be my friend? religion has an important role in this and so as shyness both ways?

Anonymous

(25-29)

i like her and she's in my class.we never talked in school.i like her but i dont want love or anything but i told her my feelings..then i messages her snd said "i just wanna be

i like her and she's in my class.we never talked in school.i like her but i dont want love or anything but i told her my feelings..then i messages her snd said "i just wanna be friends" she said "sorry i dont want friends" ..i said i want friends only.. after i told her how i felt so i think she's scared now the friendship will lead on to more like love and she not ready and its not allowed in religion.last time i told her my feelings again and she blocked me for a few hours and she unblocked me and sent me messages apologizing.. so i think she cares but doesn't want love but good friends....she doesn't answer all messages..in school she goves me really good signs and i bet she wants me to notice her and talk to her..last time i passed her and her best friends, one of her friends said out her name out loud when i passed..it happened again few days ago too.when she passes me in gym class last time..she couldnt look me in the eye coz i was infront of her so she put her head a bit down and passed me with a smile. she gives me more good signs but i can't say all..last time i got pissed off and said its my last message if ur not answrring and just forget about everything..she read that message 8 times so i bet she got sad and she doesn't want to forget it..if she didn't care she woulda got happy and deleted the convo in the beginning but she kept on reading..she's very shy by the way..so what do u guys think? also me and her and 2 girls that r her bestfriends are all from same country out of the whole school..thats really rare and special..please good answers thank u..u. think she cares about being good friends and not end up away when the year ends.. and not love....this isn't a gorl raised in the usa..we are from iraq and live in Canada...we are only 4 in the school from iraq..thays really slecial....also before a month and a half i told her how much i care..these days im showing her i dont give a fk..she posted "i miss the old u. The one that cared about me" on fb her profile cover

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Dating

When a guy asks to hang out, just the both of you, does that automatically mean its a date? Or that he's interested in a romantic way?

I met a guy a few days ago(we just talked on the bus), he added me on Facebook the next day and two days after he said: "I'd like to hang out with you sometime soon:)" he suggested we go check out a new store and after go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Why talk/ask if he does care about me?

So i liked this.guy and i told him straight up bc it was a dare, but i didn't know he had a gf at tht time. A few weeks pasted and my guy bestie dare me kiss the guy i liked but he told me in front of he guy and he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Do black women get approached less or is it just me?

I don't know i feel like for some reason guys want to talk to me or check me out but they dont talk to me or approach me. I've tried the approaching method but it never leads to anything and i just give up and think they...

GlassHeart

Xper 6 Age: 30

Relationships

I don't want to fall in love again because I'm scared to. Is this normal? Is it normal to feel so broken inside as well?

I'm 16 and over the past 5 years I've liked 5 people. Each one broke me apart like this: 1st was physically abusive (not good for first crush) 2nd I was super shy and didn't like me back anyway 3rd and 4th led me on when...

Mamusaurus

Xper 5 Age: 27

Guy's Behavior

Guys, he is saying goodbye or I need some space?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Met a guy and we hit it off - SO DRAWN TO EACH OTHER! But, he kept me at a distance, letting me in then backing away, for 2 months now. We just talked, until Saturday night. We bumped

Met a guy and we hit it off - SO DRAWN TO EACH OTHER! But, he kept me at a distance, letting me in then backing away, for 2 months now. We just talked, until Saturday night. We bumped into each other and he really wanted to make sure I got home safe. He brought me to his place for the night, then took me home in the morning. We never had sex or even kissed, but he chose to cuddle me. And, he chose to kiss my cheek goodbye, which he doesn't do with just friends. Then, Monday, I get this email from him...

I think I'll explain my romantic reticence a bit just so everything is in the clear.

My ex has been in school in boston for the past two school years; we were doing long-distance until the fall when we decided to break it off. Lately she's been telling me that she's applying for jobs in SF (along with Portland and Seattle), and we hung out when I was in Boston a couple of weeks ago. I don't really know what's going to happen with that situation to be honest, there were problems that I'm not sure her being here would solve, even though I don't know if she is actually coming back at this point. In some ways it feels like she is toying with me, although she most likely just doesn't know what she wants either.

Anyway, this is all probably TMI, but I just wanted to explain why things didn't progress yesterday or why I might come off as cool or aloof (well, more so than normal). I just thought it would be really unfair to you while I the other situation is still developing (even though it really took a lot of will power with you there so dreamlike). When we first started talking she was pretty much dead-set on staying in boston, so I felt it might be time to move on more seriously. I guess now I dont really know what is up.

I'm really sorry I led you on in any way. I do like you, there's just a big part of me invested in that relationship and person, and while its been chipped away I can't say its not still a big chunk.

Sorry if this comes off as all dramatic, but I guess it has been for me!

So, is he saying goodbye??? I'll not hear from him again???

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Society & Politics

Guys, why do guys always flirt but have no intentions of dating me?

I've come to the realization that men really don't want me because I'm black. I used to think that the flirting meant I was attractive but I think they look at me as a joke they always see me by myself, and I'm darkskin...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Why am I starting to lose confidence and feel worthless because i'm a black girl?

I dont feel confident in myself at all anymore. since people are telling me that non black men only flirt with me out of boredom and not because they really want me makes me feel so worthless and empty. I dont even want...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

What do I do next?

Me and my boyfriend just had our first fight, well first disagreement..I don't know what to call it. Here's the situation, we live about an hour away from each other so we dont get to see eachother as often as we would...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is she trying to steal my boyfriend? urgent?

I have been with my boyfriend for about a year. I am 24 and he is 32. He is a very good looking man and has this charm which attracts girls very quickly. He is a nice guy and I really love him. He works in theaters. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Are we worth the struggle? Zodiac compatibility included. help?

My Chart: (F) Sun: Capricorn23°11' Ascendant: Taurus 14°51' Moon:Gemini19°30' II:Gemini 13°04' Mercury: Aquarius 10°37' III:Cancer 6°06' Venus:Sagittarius6°20' IV:Cancer 29°00' Mars:Virgo1°53'R V:Leo26°00'...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My Chart: (F) Sun: Capricorn23°11' Ascendant: Taurus 14°51' Moon:Gemini19°30' II:Gemini 13°04' Mercury: Aquarius 10°37' III:Cancer 6°06' Venus:Sagittarius6°20' IV:Cancer 29°00'

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Girl's Behavior

(Females Help Me) What should I Do?

So im friends with this girl who's in a relationship... I've known her about 8 mouths. At first we use to text every now and then. But after about four mouths she started text me first everyday all day long. At this stage...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Tbh I dont my crush just asking me for homework?

like he always for the hoemwiork. and i want him to know that i wanna be his freind i wanna get to know him better and and all that and i feel like "the homework stage" is not working because i thought it suppose to lead...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

Why doesn't he ask me out and he his committing to me like he is my boyfriend and same with me towards him?

I have been meeting this guy on and off for 2 years. There as been a lot of complications although we always end up back to each other. But this time it is different he is more mature and caring towards me. Or so it...

Anonymous

(25-29)